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Okay - ds1 broke a bone in his hand last month. Since then, he's had one clinic visit, one ER visit (6.5 hours), one specialist visit, one FP visit, one "hand clinic" appointment, one appointment for fitting a splint and one physio appointment. I've also had to scribe a ton of his homework for him. I drove him to a class field trip (end of year horseback riding), because he had an appointment in the morning that caused him to miss the group ride. That was an hour each way. After he had two appointments, one after the next, I got a call reminding me of a dental checkup the following day. I went ahead with that, because I suspeted a cavity (he had one, but it was in a loose baby tooth, and didn't need to be filled).

All this stuff has left me feeling as though I'm spinning in circles. I also needed to fit in a chiro appointment for me - I have a dental checkup on the 4th...same day as ds1's final hand clinic appointment.

DS1 is also "graduating" from grade seven. Yesterday, we went out to rent his tux and shoes (and tophat, and buy a cane - those are from his banked allowance, though). More errands.

Last night, ds2 puked up everything he'd eaten, and was coughing and puking and stuff for about 45 minutes. Then, he was done...fell asleep and slept as usual - woke up ravenous and nursed a ton. Everything's fine. Three hours later, while eating some banana, he started puking again. I'm going to get him checked out. Doctor's appointment is at 3:00...ds1 gets home from school at about 3:05...doesn't have his keys, because he accidentally left them at a friend's house last weekend. DD is out with my mom, visiting a friend about an hour from town (friend of my mom's who specifically asked if she could bring dd). They're getting back about...3:00. So...had to get hold of ds1 at school, and have him make arrangements to go to a friend's house after school...have to catch mom while she's not driving, and let her know that she needs to take dd to her house, not my house, and I'll go there to pick up dd after I take ds2 to the doctor.

I'm sick of it. I don't know if I'm coming or going. My grocery shopping and meal planning have gone down the tubes. I've had a bug in the middle of all this, and I'm so fatigued (not sleep deprivation...this is weird...like that first trimester fatigue, yk?).

Help!! How do you mamas keep all the balls in the air? The last month and a half has just felt like constant and utter chaos. (Life with three kids is always somewhat chaotic, but this has just been...cubed...or something.)
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I hear ya! I only have one child but we are planning to sell our home and buy a new one in a different city. Because I am staying at home, coordinating all the repairs to our home and all the projects that need to be done before we can list is has fallen to me. I am also doing all the shopping for those supplies and trying to find us a loan broker and a real estate agent in the new town. Plus, I have to get my dog exercise at least every other day and dd needs to have play time daily and I need exercise once in a while. When it comes to meals, if it is not planned by dh we are eating homemade pizza, pasta, salad and sandwhiches, or, as we are doing tonite, Antipasta. That, by the way, is my fancy term for "I visited the deli and got a whole lot of finger food." Today, I had to fill out an online loan app before dd awoke, take her to a playdate (since we do both need that once in while) which included the dog. He got loose at the park and rolled in something unbelievably foul smelling so he needed a shower upon our return. Then, we gobbled lunch and ran off to 6 errands all over town.

Right now, having just finished cleaning the kitchen, dd is happily playing with playdoh while I have a break!

Stormbride - I cannot imagine doing all that you are doing with many kids. I salute you.
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Thanks, but I think the salute is premature. Let's see if I'm still not on the psych ward once ds1's hand is out of its splint, and ds2 is finished with his bug. Interestingly enough, I barely mentioned dd in all that...but she's the main source of general chaos, such as refusing to get dressed when ds1 is supposed to be at the specialist in 10 minutes, and I still have to get there and find parking...

I don't know how I did this when I only had one...and no car....
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