Thought you all would be interested in this

[she's~a~wild~one]

http://www.shmuley.com/articles.php?id=277

This is the Shalom in the Home guy right?? I haven't ever watched the show but have been told he has some extreme views, guess this is one of them. I showed this article to my dh and he laughed and called him some not so nice names

[REDBREAST]

I am shocked and appalled!!!!! If what the article stated that breast-feeding is what tears a marriage apart, then my marriage would have long been gone, since I BF dd six and a half years!! I cannot keep my dh off of me, so the whole thing about husbands being turned off is wrong! If a marriage falls apart due to breast-feeding, then the marriage is not strong to begin with. The statements are all made up, based on nothing but the authors stupid, sexist ideas!!! I want to tear that article off the internet!!!!

Even when a baby is formula fed, they still cry and the mother is the one who does most of the feedings, and actually a babe who is AP is cries less and sleeps better and of course is much happier!

What drugs is this guy taking to state such BS?

[~Megan~]

Wow, that's disturbing. So instead of finding ways to compromise and work around the child's NEEDS they instead suggest giving him a bottle. How will that take any less time?

[MaggieSqrl]

geesh! I'm glad my DH sees how beautiful BFing is, and doesn't think it "damages my looks" or whatever this guy thinks. He's also happy I can do this for our babies, of course!

Shalom in the Home? Oy vay...

[Ellien C]

oh yeah! Throughout all of human history, BF has been undermining pair-matings and marital relationsips!! :

[Joannarachel]

: What a disgusting comment

[CrunchyKat]

I saw a commercial for that show and was discusted with that. Now I read this and I'm flaming. What a f*cking idiot. I wish I could take that off the net too.

My husband thinks bfing is sexy. So there.

[NCMommax2]

WOW and I had respect for him until now. For a man who has 8 kids, you think he'd have a little more common sense. I wonder what his wife thinks of this "position."

FOr the record, I have BF our son for 18 months and DH could care less when it comes to intimacy. ANd, yes, he has be squirted with BM a time or 2 and just wipes his face I am so lucky to have a DH like that!

[Momtwice]

Another thread
http://www.mothering.com/discussions...d.php?t=473328