Yes, try www.surromomsonline.com
they have a weatlth of information!
Definitely everyone needs to be on board!!!
Now, in our case, I do probably want more children of my own, but then again I could be happy if I didn't. My husband is more on the fence. So, surrogacy works for us right now. Some clinics do not want to work with a surrogate who says she might want more children. They feel it is too big a risk, because there is always the chance you could lose reproductive function after any pregnancy and they feel a surro who wants more children should not take that risk. In the case of traditional surrogates, you should NOT work with someone who says they want more children! That's just a recipe for disaster!