my name is carol toowow!
you scared me for a second
as i thought you were all mad at me!
I'd rather the mom and dad decide to have kids for their OWN reasons. Not because of what they think for their "kids". Who knows what your kids will want/need? My opinion is mom and dad need to decide what THEY want and NEED and the children will be FINE AND HAPPY with or without siblings. It is the parent's choice not the baby's.
No one chooses to be brought into this world anway.