I hate my dh

[Jade2561]

Ughhh - hes stressing me out more than hes helping. I wish he would go back to work and stop fighting with our two year old. I feel like I have 3 kids now. Hes been so moody and jerky you'd think it was him who just gave birth. What a pooper.

[~pi]

mama. I hope you get some more/better support soon.

[writermommy]

I'm still pregnant, but I hated my dh last night. I mean, really HATED him. He just really pissed me off. Maybe I'll be going into labor soon. He tried to make up, but I just didn't want him around. I told him to go the hell to bed and leave me alone. Then I stayed up until midnight because I didn't want to be around him. This is our fourth and I get very touchy just before and after the birth. I know I'll like him again eventually. I hope things get better for you soon!

[Max'sMama]

Originally Posted by Jade2561

Ughhh - hes stressing me out more than hes helping. I wish he would go back to work and stop fighting with our two year old. I feel like I have 3 kids now. Hes been so moody and jerky you'd think it was him who just gave birth. What a pooper.

AHHHHH! Someone after my own heart....I am feeling the same way about my dh.

is all I hear when he has been dealing w/ ds. Ds i relatively positve normally and after being around dh for a week straight, he is starting to get really negative too! I cant blame him when dh is so wishy washy and so 'no' happy!

Though I am not looking forward to being alone as a parent to two 'babies' next week, it will be nice to be able to get back into a routine! Though the routine, will no doubt be different with a new baby in the house, a routine none-the-less, will be a great thing

[carliec76]

Thats why I prepared him in advance by having Daddy days. Making him have one day a week were he spent time with Cadan alone will hopefully prepare him for FMLA time.

[elsanne]

Hoo boy can I relate! It's easier to deal with the very difficult job of doing it yourself versus always arguing with dh over how to do it. It's such a sucky catch-22, needing help yet not the way he gives it.

[MrsSurplus]

(((((Mamas))))))

[1hautemama]

Oh, I sooo relate! When dh is home he spends time tracking my spending habits with online banking (hon, what did you spend $125 on at Big Lots?), or he pesters me with his "lists" of things he wants me to do around the house while he's gone : .My dh is a pilot and after having him around for 3 days straight I feel like asking him, "don't you have a trip to go on?" He will be home for SIX WEEKS for FMLA...yikes.

[TeaghansMama]

i hear you Mama
dh and i have fought and i mean FOUGHT every day this week
it's to the point i can't even look at him
i've been under incredible stress and he makes everything worse.
i've been begging him to clean out his office enough that my cousin can sleep there so if i go into labor while she's here dd can be in her room and not ours so i have a place to labor
but no... that's not his priority. it's MUCH MORE IMPORTANT to cut, edge and blow the lawn cause of course we are going to have houseguests and visitors and he might not have time before I HAVE THIS BABY!!!!!!!!
uuugghhhh! sorry to hijack Mama
pregnancy (and birth) hormones suck. so do dh's sometimes!

[ksjhwkr]

That is really frustrating!!! I have had to remind my dh that ds is 2 and has just gone through a huge change in his life. That has helped some. It should get better.

[Max'sMama]

Originally Posted by ksjhwkr

That is really frustrating!!! I have had to remind my dh that ds is 2 and has just gone through a huge change in his life. That has helped some. It should get better.

I had to do that too! We were discussing ds's age in front of ds and he piped in 'Yea, me only 2 Dad' that got us both cracking up. Still frustrating though! DH agreed that he probably does expect too much from him, forgetting that he is only TWO!!!!!

[annarosa]

moody and jerky - what's the matter with him ! it's your hormones that are cooking up not his - maybe you should remind him of that
here's to you getting the support you deserve

[Yin Yang]

I can't stand my DH either. But it's MY hormons, not him at all. He does everything right, but I just can't stand him around. I am a little worrid I'll feel that way during the birth as well.....I hope he won't be hurt.