Anyone else's dh feeling neglected in the boudoir? Ds is 2mos. exactly and dh and I have not yet resumed any 'activities'. I have absolutely zero interest which he doesn't exactly get b/c ds is so different from our older kids in that he sleeps great at night and thus I am not as exhausted as I was when my older kids were infants. Don't get me wrong, dh is not being a jerk about it; he's more sulky and always trying to come up with a way to get me in the mood - nice dinner, backrub, etc. My doc, who I saw today for ds's 2 mos check said its hormonal and will eventually pass - but she said the big hormones right now are for/from bf'ing which I just won't alter. Advice? Suggestions? I know I am being the best mom I can be to my kids, but I also know I am not being the best wife I can be to dh and this will likely become harder when I go back to work next month. I am definately touched out by days end and just can't be bothered but dh's despair and puppy dog eyes are seriously guiltafying.
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7/21/06 at 3:55am