|LoveBeads- I was offering up my opinion|
I also wanted to say that I really look up to ALL the wonderful mommas here. Any mom who is trying not to include hitting, punishment, shaming, yelling, love withdrawal, etc in her family's daily life is doing a wonderful, beautiful thing! Its amazing how much more stressful the couple mommas' lives seem that I know irl who aren't gd mommas. I feel so blessed to have all you wonderful women to listen to, even if we don't all always agree, we all still have much in common.
ETA- the gentle dads and nannies and other care providers are great too! Didn't mean to exclude anyone!