Okay, we were TRYING to get pregnant. So now I told dh about the pregnancy yesterday morning and here's the crap he's sprung on me:
- He was supposed to start welding school in the fall. He has no college or trade school experience thus far, which is why it was so important to both of us (I thought) that he go back to school: so that we could provide better for our family. Well, last night he announces to me that he'll go in 4-5 years, but right now he needs to just get a real job.
- He knows how much I hated dd's hospital birth. We talked about it in depth before we ever started ttc#2 and I was VERY clear that future babies will be homebirthed. So last night he starts grilling me on those plans and tells me that even though he KNOWS it's "not as dangerous as it appears to be," he still thinks homebirthing is "a bunch of happy hippy bullshit." What makes me even angrier about this is that before dd was born, he was ALL FOR homebirth! DD's hospital birth apparently showed him how "dangerous" birth is. Even after I've explained and explained it, he doesn't get that it was that bad BECAUSE I was in the hospital!!