Originally Posted by ConfusedPrincess
OK look I'm am starting to tear up right now. It bothers me so much how people attack, assume and accuse without knowing where i truly stand and why I want to know this information. I'll admit some of you have gotten specific and asked me to clarify and be more specific. Well I'm sorry i can't do that for you (here come the tears) from the way i feel I've been treated i don't feel comfortable to open to and explain my motives-that would involve giving specific information about my personal life -to understand what I'm here for.
Let me hint at something here: did you all ever in school or from your parents, been asked to give reasoning for something and then they fired back all these contradicting statements and what not-instead of just accepting your answer. Like they made you really prove your point-not cos they didn't personally believe you but b/c they wanted you to be able to deal with other other people's opposing opinions. What I'm trying to say is...maybe I'm trying to push to bring out very convincing points for anti-circ and that's why I'm pushing buttons to get the best answers-not necessarily for myself.
Just trust me I'm not here to debate or even argue I would simply liek some help with an important and serious issue I'm currently dealing with ...maybe if the mood changes around here I can feel open to share my personal struggle with you -I just thought I'd get better info. this way. Just keep in mind that I'm not a bad person, I'm not wanting to upset anyone-I just want to see how you would respond when someone fired back instead of saying "oh ok i see the light now" cos maybe, just maybe I'll be in your shoes having to explain myself in a few months...
I know I'm starting to get off topic and go into a lil oh poor me my life is so hard rant...anyways I know I was giving it back to some of you but I felt really offended that as soon as you *assumed* I was pro-circ you treated me unkind.If anyone has a "warm" reply I could possibly discuss in a private message some of my concerns. I really would like your help since I don't have anyone in my personal life who I could discuss my concerns with. Thanks
What exactly is it that you want from us? I am sure that we will do our best to provide it.