Ugh. I read on salon.com not too long ago about a woman who was taken to court for abuse because she developed a photo of her nursing her baby--an older baby, I think about 18 months, but still, that's insane. The charges were eventually dropped but still, crazy.
If these folks want to force me to accomodate their neuroses, they should pay for it. Because sheesh, their preference for my invisibility is uncomfortable and EXPENSIVE! I want them to buy me the bottles, bottle sterilizing gadget, the NICEST hospital-grade pump on the market, a blanket made of soft, breathable cashmere--in our favorite shade of lavender, natch--and a car--a red Prius would be nice, but I'd settle for any hybrid.
And if they would prefer I just used formula in public, they better pay for that, too, and do the laundry that results.