Tribe for Mamas of Indigo/Crystal/Rainbow Children - Page 34

[richella]

That's a really interesting question. dd1 has something in her chart (don't remember what right now) that indicates a potential for substance abuse/addiction. I think addiction is about how people cope with difficult situations, so I guess I see it as my job to teach dd how to solve problems, be emotionally present, have confidence in herself, etc, just like it would be for any kid.

If it weren't astrological, she would have the genetic propensity anyway, from both sides of her family. That's life.

So I guess what I'm saying is that I don't really believe in predictions per se, there may be tendencies, but we always have the choice, and the responsibility to make good choices. I've never known an astrologer who would disagree with that.

[Ianthe]

Originally Posted by expat-mama

Hi everyone,
I'm really interested in everything you all are talking about, I find it so fascinating! My mother and DH's mother have always been really into astrology and now that we are TTC they've both been saying we should go and see a psychic to hear what he/she has to say. Where we live in Asia, most people go and see some kind of psychic or numerologist to decide what to name their baby and to predict what kind of traits he/she will have.

Anyway, after reading many of the posts here, I was wondering, has anyone had a psychic (or heard of a case) that ever said anything negative or something "not desirable" about their LO?

I wonder this because it seems a lot of the time, psychics have really good news, but never bad news and that makes me doubt them sometimes. Because after all, there are some kids that will unfortunately grow up to do things we wish they didn't or things we aren't proud of...or even worse.

From what I understand, psychics can ask their spirit guides or whatever not to show them the bad stuff, and only the good are OK stuff.

I got a reading (from Cheri22) about Seb and she said he would be in "surveillance" but not necessarily the "military" which I wouldnt consider too positive.. but that's just me

[clothmumma]

What a wonderful thread. I have yet to read everything, but it is nice to be amoungst others who have crystal and rainbow children.

[majikfaerie]

I had an astrology reading (a very in depth one) done by someone I trust for DD, and he said that she had some very 'heavy' issues to deal with from past lives, that would make things very challenging for us in the early years.

[Missymommy]

looking for help

I was able to read a lot of the posts but there are so many i couldn't read them all. My child was born with a medical condition which is some what common. Her case was not so common though. She was supposed to be in the hospital for 3-6 weeks max and stayed for nearly 7 months. The condition is not important what is important is that i believe this happened for a reason. She def. changed my life but i am curious to why she would have chosen to go through what she did. I can not say with 100% certainty but i believe she is special. When she left the hospital most of the nurses left their duties to see her off, some cried others just observed intensely. People seemed to be drawn to her everywhere she goes. She can go to the park where all the children are older and with in minutes all the children are following her around and talking to her. When we go on walks we walk by this one house and every time she says the name cody. She doesn't know anyone by that name that i am aware of. She says she sees monsters in her room and sleeps with the light on. I know that is common but where is the line? I ask her about what she sees but i am unable to get the message she is trying to give me. I have always been very emotionally sensitive and very open minded. I always felt like i knew things about people just by looking at them, usually with people i don't know. when i was preg. with my daughter i KNEW it was a girl, and i also had a dream that she had a mechanical stomach, which is where her condition was. I do not know what to make of everything and i just want to help my daughter if she is an indigo or any of the like. I am looking for guidance with my own spiritual growth as well as my daughters. I want her to be able to fully blossom and i am willing to learn along side with her. i have planned on homeschooling her since i can remember cause public schools can be terrifying. i have been searching for guidelines and sending out messages to anyone who can receive them that i am ready to be introduced to the information that awaits. please help

[Ianthe]

Missy- Your daughter sounds more like a Crystal or rainbow child than an Indigo...

I am reading the book "Children of the Now" and it is pretty good so far. Maybe that might be a good book for you to look into?

[mad4mady]

[QUOTE=Missymommy;11647984] but i am curious to why she would have chosen to go through what she did. [QUOTE]


She chose this to learn something and help others learn. That is why we go through everything we go through in our lives is to learn. I went through some very difficult times as a child and teen and I used to wonder why I was going through this, when I realized that I had chosen this for myself I was even more stumped. It was only later through meditation and reading that all the hard times made sense.

QUOTE=Missymommy;11647984] I have always been very emotionally sensitive and very open minded. I always felt like i knew things about people just by looking at them, usually with people i don't know. when i was preg. with my daughter i KNEW it was a girl, and i also had a dream that she had a mechanical stomach, which is where her condition was. [QUOTE]

I had many dreams about my daughter while I was pregnant and I also knew she was a girl. Its funny and brings up a question, Are parents that are more open and intuitive more likely to have one of these children pick them as their parents?? I read that Crystals are born to Indigos? Is that true? What about Indigos??

Megan

[Ianthe]

I'm an Indigo and my son is a Crystal

[babygrant]

subbing.

[AdoptChina]

My 5 yr old is a Crystal child....he fits so many of the characteristics

My 2 yr old sounds very much like a Rainbow Child (and an interesting side note--while he was being born there were several rainbows in the sky--i could see them out the window and we have always called him our Rainbow baby for that reason )

I think my 14 yr old is an Indigo child

Im not sure about my 11 & 8 yr olds....

[baby0hbaby]

I believe DH and I are both Indigos and that dd is a Crystal. She's only 8 months old but people are always drawn to her and always comment on her eyes. She has big beautiful almond shaped blue eyes. She's always been extremely happy and friendly. When she was born, we were sharing a house with another family with a 5 month old ds. On that first day, their cries were identical. It was eerie, almost. Our dd and their ds seemed like they already knew eachother. I believe that they did, and that they communicated telepathically when dd was still in the womb. They haven't seen eachother since we moved to Florida when dd was 2 months old, but they will probably see eachother again next spring as we're planning a trip back and it will be interesting to see how they react to eachother.

[Pinion67]

coming in late- how do you find out wat you are and what your children are ( dont laugh please - i am not sensitive but at 40 it gets a bit embarrassing ow much i dont know!)

[baby0hbaby]

Pinion, I just read about Indigos and Crystals and saw a lot of traits that fit.

[mamatoady]

Oh, mamas! I am new to this thread and desperately seeking some thoughts other than my own. My dd is about to start kindergarten and I am searching frantically to find out if there's something "wrong" with her or "special"...she just seems different to me from other kids. I currently have a thread trying to figure out if she has ADD (no hyperactive whatsoever). It just seems that there is more to it than that.

I have read thru about crystal children and my darling fits it to a t. I remember reading about it when she was only about 10 months and she fit it then too.

Here's some info:
she has always been very quiet (though now as an almost 6 year old, she can be as boisterous as the rest of them)

she didn't start smiling until 9 weeks

she didn't start laughing outloud until 6 months

she rarely if ever, cried. If she got hurt, she cried, but other than that, I only remember crying the first week she was home from the hospital.

She has always stared directly into people's eyes, sometimes right through them. Comments were always made about her eyes. They are a very piercing blue.

She has always been a delicate, peaceful child. She NEVER (until brother came) took a toy, pushed a child, hit, slapped, been agressive...not once. (and even with brother is incredibly motherly with him)

she has always very silently communicated. I somehow ALWAYS knew what she wanted, but she only had 4 words (inlcuding mama and dada) when she turned 2. She was about 2.5-3 before she really started talking.

I took her to a light worker when she was 2 and they said gave her a baskit of toys with 2 crystals tucked underneath the toys (you couldn't see them) and her hand went straight for the bottom and took the crystals out to play with them...the only other toy she played with for over an hour that we sat there was a small ball that was shaped like the earth with pictures of the continents.

the light worker concluded that she was a crystal child. (though not just because of picking the crystal)

there were many times between about 3 and now (6) that we really had to work with her to participate in what is/was going on, though she was always very aware and observant. We considered her shy and slow to warm up, but it always felt like more than that.

She refused to speak to my best friend for almost 2 years and when it finally became an issue to my friend, I asked dd about it and she said that she didn't think my friend(and her spouse) liked her and she felt sad around them. When I told my friend, she said that she had felt uncomfortable around my daughter for a number of reasons (because she was shy and my friend didn't know how to relate to little kids without sounding fake).

Now we are dealing with some inattentiveness issues. She's in tae kwan do and has extreme difficulty paying attention and very easily loses herself in watching what others are doing. She is definitely in her own world (until reminded by classmates of her turn and such, then she's rarin' to go.

I have to speak to her very directly or she doesn't seem to notice or care that I have said anything. sometimes she'll oblige to do what I ask, but then I find her doing something completely different and enjoying the heck out of it.

She is such a lover and soaks up any and all attention. A beautiful child, but some strong differences that make me wonder how she'll fit in when schools starts and makes me wonder if she will feel different and start to look down on herself.

We have had a very tight relationship. she nursed until she was 4, she never left me for even 30 minutes until well past 2 years old, she still sleeps in my bed most nights and now I'm about to send her to school (we are both excited) and because I feel like I know my daughter, I feel like there is something more to her than I am getting and I feel like something major is going to happen when she starts school--good or bad, not sure....

I just want opinions, thoughts, something to help me find the right direction for her/me/us.

thanks for reading if you got this far and doubly thanks if you reply!
sarah

[mamatoady]

LOL, I was just remembering once, my daughter handed me the phone and said "it's daddy"...I looked at it and it was off and about 5 seconds later it rang and it was her dad.

I'm not much of a believer in coincidence. lol:
sarah

[serynity]

Hi there, this is my secong attempt to replying to these threads for I am new to these kinds of forums, I'm not used to sending any messages like this. Lol.
I am a proud single mom of two, aged 2 and 8, they are quite a handful, more so then normal children may be, I am 33 years old my bday lands on June 20th 1975~my oldest is Dec.1st 1999~my youngest is June 18th 2006. I have been researching on many topics relating to crystals and indigos and finding many resaons to believe that we are crystals born into the world by other crystals, and maybe indigos? I have just started my research a couple days ago and to my surpirse after carrying so many unanswered questions and wondered if I was really beginning to go insane or that these may be the 1st signs of madness, lol, seriously. It was a very emotional moment for me following many of the stories I have come across so far. I have encountered many obstacles thru my years many I know that should have claimed my life. So why am I still here? Between my children that mean the world to me, who show alot of signs they may indeed be either indigo or crystal themselves, Im not sure how to recognize it, but they do have very many capabilities and are very high maintence and high energy children more so from any other children I have ever met. Other's who don't understand us have considered me to treat them for ADHD, something I have thought of it, but I am not supportive of that at all nor believe to offer drugs to innocent children that could be damaging to their health, I know in my heart there is much more to this than what others see and who tend to always prejudge me before they ever meet me, and find me very intimidating which is not accomodating to me who want's more then anything to develop friends, which I had had hard times trying to succeeed at for many yeras. Much like my oldest child who has hard times in school or trying to develop friends and who has had fallen behind in speech and language as well as slower at developing many other tasks as regular children who only needs more attention in class to help him succeed. I personally don't think there's enough in our classrooms these days which makes it difficult to follow through adding more stress upon the children unfairly. Being a single mom makes it that much more difficult to understand if you cannot relate. I am looking for others out there to net~work with who also are parents and can share their experiences with me and may be help me determine which of who they are, I truly believe in my heart that we are born crystals. If not, more so that I may be. I'm not sure if this reply will ever reach out to you all, but I have tried twice now and no luck, so I signed in again hoping this will finally work, usually things in my life are always relative to the number "3" for some strange reason.
I have so much to say, I am not sure where to begin and where I should start, I know I do want to write a book, most of my life revolved being artistically inclined to writing and reading skills that has progressed from an early age, naturally. I have a need to help or support others, I have also had noticed through my life I have been shut out and more like an outcast to society as well as a feeling of being between two worlds that refuse to accept me within a world which seems to be spinning out of control alot faster lately. I have felt this vibration of the earth spinning out of control this way for many years now and after reading other materials on this has brought this to reality today which I have found to be very disturbing. I also noticed how magnetically drawn people have been to me in crowds which I am very sensitive to and I would like to avoid, other's I'm close to have also noticed these things while out with me. I have been told many times by those who don't understand me or who dont know me and suddenly tell me that I have dark mysterious eyes that are black and very hypnotic, that have an endless deep stare to them which draws people away and who find me very intimidating and have described this as distrubing. I've doubted them since I cannot see what they seem to see and this is not my intention to draw others away unless I'm feeling threatened but for some odd reason trying to figure out who they really are whether they are a threat or not,, but has made me curious about why after hearing the comments so often.Most of my time I am off in my own world amongst society minding my own business to only find that I cannot feeling i stand out in the crowd to ooften. I have found I cannot be in over crowded places or able to tolerate high pitched noises I am very senstive to. I can also pick people out in the crowds that would tend to be very 'aggressive' or that could tend to have a negative vibe they carry drawing my energy from them if I'm stuck in their presence for a period of time only wishing I hadn't been there in the first place with a feeling of being threatened for an unknown reason which is also dirturbing and uncomfortable, but placing them without knowing who they are. It's been an abilty for years being able to pick people out. I have also had re-curring dreams that have made me to believe that it's another life~time I am living that I encounter and maybe a reason to believe it's a training process of some kind. I don't want others to say that i am paranoid becuase I know this to be the truth and only speak of the truth many would claim i am going crazy or out of my mind, but I cannot tell what these dreams are trying to tell me knowing they are portraying some kind of strong messages that I want to share more informationn about. I dream in color, always have, I can recall smells and clearly remember the faces of people and thier voices including clear surroundings..it's made me wonder "why" since it has been a part of who I am for many years since my childhood that of which I have overcome many barriers. To which has brought me here looking for more answers. If anyone can come forward and share any experiences with me that would be very much appreciated for I now realise there's many others out there nationwide that I am willing to share mine with as well. Thank You.

[marimara]

I don't know if it's already been mentioned but I thought it was worth a try. There are many Native American prophecies of "Rainbow People" who will be born that will come with the purpose of teaching the rest of us how to live in the ways of the Great Spirit and basically save the Earth and all it relations. Here is a link w/some information. http://www.manataka.org/page235.html

Love this thread!

Bless

[FondestBianca]

why the labels? I would never have wanted to be labeled any of these things as a child (or an adult for that matter). Honestly, I don't know the difference in defination between them and although I'm sure my kiddo would fit in there somewhere, couldn't we refer them as they are, as indivuals, rather than the, IMO, silly sounding labels??

I don't mean to be rude, honestly. I use labels I'm sure others would not so I'm guilty of the very same offence but, these labels will do nothing but devide our children from others. I was hoping for something more when I opened the thread but, instead I see so much labeling and assumptions about these children based on the labels. Please tell me this isn't the case here and I'm just overly sensitive.

[annettemarie]

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[flowers]

Originally Posted by FondestBianca

why the labels? I would never have wanted to be labeled any of these things as a child (or an adult for that matter). Honestly, I don't know the difference in defination between them and although I'm sure my kiddo would fit in there somewhere, couldn't we refer them as they are, as indivuals, rather than the, IMO, silly sounding labels??

I don't mean to be rude, honestly. I use labels I'm sure others would not so I'm guilty of the very same offence but, these labels will do nothing but devide our children from others. I was hoping for something more when I opened the thread but, instead I see so much labeling and assumptions about these children based on the labels. Please tell me this isn't the case here and I'm just overly sensitive.

I hear you about the labels but I think this tribe was started more to fulfill a need for the parents. I think all children fall into this category but not all parents choose to consciously see these "coincidences" as gifts and magical happenings, kwim? It's a place for us to marvel at how in tune and magical our children really are.