There is a board devoted exclusively to high FSH issues. It used to be on highfsh [dot] org, but may have moved. It got really popular so it spawned over 40 and high fsh, etc. The board moves really really fast, but I learned a lot from it. Many women on the board try herbal treatments. They also trade information about high-fsh-friendly REs and IVF clinics.
Good luck!
Beth
DS (6-1/2); DD (3-1/2) (fellow high-FSHer)