[QUOTE=the_dalai_mama]

mommy65, have you read
Whose Calling the Shots about "War" play?
We've been invaded by die cast metal airplanes over here.
I think they need to process this war culture we live in. I may not like it, but I'd much rather he process it in childhood than as an adult.
I hope it works the way I want it to.

no, i haven't read it but i will-- thanks for the tip. i know enough that i don't want to take all the fun out of pretend play by making everything "nice". kids (especially boys) need to play out all those big aggressive impulses in a healthy way--- but it's so hard to walk through toy store isles and see little plastic versions of the stuff we see on t.v. news. i do agree they may as well processs it in childhood. we see what happens, sadly, when grown up little boys can't manage these violent feelings. they grow up to be...president.

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