most of the moms of micropreemies I know had the classic c-section. Our perinatolgist said to me that I can never have a traditional birth (vbac) since the risk of tearing is 1 in 10.
I posted on the vbac board about this wondering if anyone went on to have vbac after a classical csection, and got a few yes's. though, I admit, I am not sure I believe them as any doctor I have talked to (and I have talked to a lot) said they would never do it as the risk is way too great.
so, those of you who had classical csections, did you get the same warning? what are your feeling on it?
at first, I mourned not having the choice - and I mourned not being able to experience what so many women before me had throughout history - and not being a part of that sisterhood. I've pretty much moved past it, but I still have a bit of me that is sad of never going into labor again, and having it in MY control how my child is born.
what do you guys think about it - ?
I posted on the vbac board about this wondering if anyone went on to have vbac after a classical csection, and got a few yes's. though, I admit, I am not sure I believe them as any doctor I have talked to (and I have talked to a lot) said they would never do it as the risk is way too great.
so, those of you who had classical csections, did you get the same warning? what are your feeling on it?
at first, I mourned not having the choice - and I mourned not being able to experience what so many women before me had throughout history - and not being a part of that sisterhood. I've pretty much moved past it, but I still have a bit of me that is sad of never going into labor again, and having it in MY control how my child is born.
what do you guys think about it - ?





. but I am not the best at carrying babies and my two prgncies can vouch that I am great when the babies are out, but I do not do good w prgncy. So we have closed the factory and we count our blessings. Besides if any of these things happened again, I dont think I can do that pain again.
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) made sure that I knew before he did the c-section that he had to do it that way to save both her and me but I'd never be able to have a VBAC because of the risk of uterine rupture and if we ever had another baby, they'd have to monitor me closely to make sure the placenta didn't attach over my incision and if it did, other not so good things could happen.


::knock on wood::
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