DO NOT LET YOUR SONS BE NEAR THIS CHILD EVER.
NOT EVER.
FOR ANY REASON.
Listen, I'm not a psychologist. I'm an English teacher, actually, but in the study of characters in literature, I've done a decent amount of research into sociopathy as defined in the DSM-IV. See
link.I'm also one of those people who likes criminology as a hobby, so please take what I'm going to say with the appropriate grains of salt now that you know my résumé.
From your description, I think the boy is a sociopath with definitely violent and possibly homicidal potential. Typically, violent sociopaths engage in what some researchers have called the "homicidal triad" of related disorders, including arson, bedwetting, and violence toward animals. They progress upward, moving from violence toward animals to violence toward people.
This boy is violent, period. Unless I am very, very mistaken, he will continue to escalate in his behavior and will commit an act of violence on anything weaker than himself,
including your children. This is not normal behavior. He needs to have psychiatric intervention NOW, but there's little that can be done about it.
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Originally Posted by MyCalling
I seriously don't know what to do. My friend is a single mother and very lenient with her son. He seems to have no sympathy or feelings about hurting anyone or anything. I have seen him have a smug look every time I've witnessed him do anything also (which is the most disgusting part, IMO). He killed a rabbit and a cat at 3yo and is now 4 1/2 and killed another cat. Last week he threatened to kill my dog because HE tripped over her rump. He has also strangled my dog with various ropes and strings before. I've tried to explain why that's not acceptable, but it obviously doesn't work and there's only so much I can do seeing him seldom.
He has jumped up and down on my child's head and scarred his face another time by scratching him, and sat on another son's back pinning him face down on a tile floor and smashed his head into the tiles. Another time threw a brick and cut my son's forehead down to his skull. 
After the last cat died I told her he needed counseling. She made excuses for him as usual saying it's "boy stuff" and he'll outgrow it. All of these animals that have died have been "defective." Her uncle said a 4 1/2 year old isn't capable of knowing the results of his actions.  : Previously the boy had thrown the cat against a wall, locked it in small toy cages and pots, squeezed it when angry, tried drowning it before in a cage in the bath tub, and when it finally died my friend found it in the tub with water. She said it drowned itself since it liked sleeping in the tub and must not have known there was water in there and had not jumped out because it was sick since she saw it peed blood the night before. : I had told her she needed to give the cat away after hearing about the previous things before it died. She refused.
After the cat died, she said she would never get another animal so I didn't push it about him needing counseling. She now has another cat. : What should I do?
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Let's hope she can't convince CPS to agree with her.
I know how much courage it took to make that call. Please let us know how things go . . . . 
