I'm from Palatine. Don't live there anymore, but my son is intact as well. And just to make you feel not alone I have a friend near Schaumburg that is due in October and is definiately leaving her little man intact. So, you're not alone!!
Just stand strong. If it comes up again I would tell them the facts: The AAP doesn't recommend it, it is cosmetic surgery, it is considered genital mutilation by many health organizations. Then, as everyone else has said, tell them it isn't up for discussion. Why oh why do people have to make an issue of this? Seriously, why can't they just leave it alone?
I just don't get why people think you should circumcise on the off chance that a kid one day when your son is 13 might just make a stupid uneducated comment. Why do people advise cutting off a piece of a baby's body to meet some sort of social pressure? I will never ever understand this. We are all different. We all have different hair, eyes, boobs, heights, weights, etc.... Why do people assume that all circumcised penises look the same? They are all different circumcised or not. It is the most assinnine reason to circumcise. It makes no sense whatsoever.
Ugh....sorry to go on, but it just makes me so mad!!!