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post #121 of 132
I think diamnds are ugly, and I won't buy them in any case. My engagement ring is an opal.
post #122 of 132
Never been a diamond or a gold lover.
That being said I have a white gold wedding band with like, 10 small diamond chips in it. I think our set cost $300.

Would I buy something different this time? Probably just a whitegold or silver band would've been fine.
post #123 of 132
I have a diamond engagement ring of about .50 carat. When I accepted it I was not aware of the awful history of diamonds. If I never receive any more-I wouldn't buy them myself, DH gives me jewelery as a gift once in a great while-that's fine with me. There are other gems stones I find prettier anyway.

Plus, I am not that much of a jewelery person anyway. Besides my engagement and wedding rings, the only other jewelery I ever wear is for religious reasons-medals, scapulars, and such.

Oh, and I totally agree about what PPs have said about people making inappropriate comments about the size of one's diamond. When I first got engaged, one woman at work looked at my ring and said, "Very nice. That diamond is very petite." I am like, WTH? You basically said it was small, which I don't think it is...I actually think large diamond look kinda vulgar anyway.
post #124 of 132
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Originally Posted by lovebug
WOW say what you really feel. i like them and i guess im sorry! no wait im not sorry! i really do like them! i love the way they look and so keep quoteing me about "how bad i am for likeing them" well i guess shame on me! : : :
Actually, yes. It is shameful that you are so cavalier about the deaths that go into your jewelry.
post #125 of 132
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Originally Posted by lovebug
WOW say what you really feel. i like them and i guess im sorry! no wait im not sorry! i really do like them! i love the way they look and so keep quoteing me about "how bad i am for likeing them" well i guess shame on me! : : :
I don't get the point.

As buyers you can't indiscriminately buy just because you like how they look.
In speaking to ppl in countries with no civil strive and diamonds mines in Africa, I understand how important it is for their economies that consumers continue to buy diamonds, it is the reason I now buy because I had stopped for a bit, because my home country had no way of proving provenance.
But even they ask that we inquire into where the diamonds come from, and that we not support conflict diamonds.

I make the choice each time I buy diamonds to ask pointed questions about where the stones come from, it is my job as the buyer to question the provenance of the stones if that information is not freely and openly given, and to make sure that the diamond I have paid for is NOT the cause of a multiated child or death!!!!!!!
Because by not doing your part in the buying process that may be the cost for someone a world away.

But then if you are so blantly buying what ever is pretty I doubt that you are looking at companies that have a proven track record (Graff, Rand, Tiffany) but rather like my friends are just giddy with happiness over 2 cts from where ever.
post #126 of 132
Would you watch a mugger beat a man severely, leaving him bloodied on the ground, taking his wallet and all of his jewelry - and then buy from him the ring he just stole off his victim?

Does it become "OK" when you don't have to witness the mugging?
post #127 of 132
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Originally Posted by itsang
This thread completely rocks! I knew I didn't want a diamond because of what goes into it & because the prices are just ridiculous! : Thanks to this thread, I decided on this moissanite engagement/wedding ring set. We've been thinking about rings for while & I was looking for something a little different than what I've seen out there & I found it...plus, I couldn't be happier with the price & the fact that I'm not contributing to ugly diamond mining practices.

Now, I'm just waiting that ring to arrive & for DP to surprise me with it. I'm really anxious!
That's great! I think you'll be very happy with how beautiful Moissanite is in person. I just got a Moissanite ring this week and it's beautiful. Enjoy!!
post #128 of 132
i have a huge 'russian star'
which is like a diamond in most ways,
but it is lab created.
my higher quality than a cz
more money than cz, but not NEAR the price of diamonds.

i didn't realize people were "anti diamond'
im just anti spending lots of $$

if you do like looks of diamond, try the russian star lab stones.
post #129 of 132
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Originally Posted by KatherineNaomi
That's great! I think you'll be very happy with how beautiful Moissanite is in person. I just got a Moissanite ring this week and it's beautiful. Enjoy!!
That's a nice looking ring, as well. I'm sure I will be happy with my ring. I love the look of diamonds (inherited an heirloom piece with 3 tiny stones from my great-grandmothers' and grandmother's wedding rings), so when I researched moissanite, I knew that was what I wanted.

I plan on getting DP a titanium band with no stones that he likes online. Guys are so easy!
post #130 of 132
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Originally Posted by crissei
Diamonds are so passe! I'm thinking of just wearing severed heads on a chain around my neck. Ya know... cut out the middleman.

This reminds me of a Sarah Silverman's joke in "Jesus is magic".

"I know it's mean, but it's soooooooo cute!!!!! What am I supposed to do? ? ?!!!!"
post #131 of 132

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Edited by lotusbeans - 3/16/14 at 9:16am
post #132 of 132
awww thanks, lotusbeans!
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