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Originally Posted by kerpav 
I have been researching vaxes on my own and reading up on all of your posts. So, so helpful! I am very grateful to have found this thread.
However, in some ways I feel more confused than ever. My son is now 4 months old, no vaxes so far. I live in NYC and know there are particular requirements for school entry (and I am not prepared to not vax..but I do want to delay to make it as safe as possible for him). Found a local ped that is willing to work on whatever schedule I create  , and I need to have this plan laid out for the next appt., because I think we'll start some vaxes at 6 months.
Kate33FL, I agree with your comments on HepB, but how do you get specific waivers for specific vaxes? Anyone know if that is possible in NY?
I would like to follow a similar schedule to yours posted above, but am unclear on the following. A) 1 shot of Hib is enough? No boosters needed if done at 18 months? B.) No MMR booster is required? I believe in New York City at least a measles booster is required for school entry. Also, they say at least 1 vaccine must be administered for school entry "within the previous 2 months" for DtaP, IPV, MMR, Hib, HepB, Varicella, PCV.....sooo HOW can I POSSIBLY spread out the vaxes AND meet these requirements without having to do boosters before age 2?  :
Sooo confused! I appreciate any advise, and humbly applaud all of you knowledgable moms out there. 
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In my experience/research, you basically have three options:
1.) Fully vax on schedule
2.) Vax off schedule / delay but catch the child up fully to meet state/school requirements by the time the child enters school
3.) Do not vax AT ALL and seek a medical/religious/philosophical exemption as appropriate/allowed in your state.
If your state ONLY allows for a medical and a religious exemption (i.e., there is no philosophical exemption) then what you CANNOT do, is do some of the vaxes and not others and clear the religious exemption hurdle... i.e., your "bona fide religious beliefs" cannot possibly be to vax for Hib and not Hep B. LOL And frankly, it's a slippery slope for the philosophical exemption to do that too, though perhaps there's a dash more wiggle room there.
Basically, if you think you want to go down the delay/selective vax route, you need to know BEFORE you get into it whether you will need to catch your children up before entering school.
This is what we did. And I certainly did not begin vaxing my infants... as they were YEARS away from entering school. I managed to catch up my twins prior to entering nursery school without giving them more than 1 shot at a time, spaced many months apart. (If you start later, you need fewer shots too!)
As for my toddler, he is s-l-o-w-l-y being caught up. The plan is for him to be fully vaxed *in the required vaxes only* (e.g., in my state, he doesn't NEED varicella or Prevnar or flu obviously) by the time he enters school at age 4. He's 2 1/2 now and we've barely begun the catch up process, and no way no how would I have started a drop earlier than I had to. I'm not trying to be offensive, I just don't get how people give a 2 month old 2 shots in one visit or whatever and say they're "delaying".

What's the point, kwim?