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post #21 of 57
8/30/06 at 4:37pm
This may sound strange, but I have talked to so many women with new babies recently, and every one who went in to labor on her own had that case of I just can't do it, can't be pregnant anymore, I want my baby now kinda thing. So I've been thinking for some time now that pregnancy has it's own transition just like labor has a transition point, where things are so incredibly intense that it can be hard to handle. It's an emotional signpost that goes with the physical signposts of lost mucus plugs and such.

I could say, just relax and enjoy this time, you won't get to be pregnant for much longer, and you'll miss it when it's gone, but it sounds like you're way past the point of that being helpful. So I'll just say that IME, this feeling is an inherent part of the process of moving from pregnancy to birth, and being there means you're that much closer to holding that little babe in your arms. Sounds like you're definitely close. Keep up the good work mama.

P.S. (Labor vibes pour vous ~~~~babybabybabybaby~~~~)

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post #22 of 57
8/31/06 at 12:00am
Yes, it is coming! your anticipation and longing are as important as the birth itself. every little twinge is preparing you for the ultimate event: birthing that beautiful child.

it will be soon, try to rest if you can.
post #23 of 57
8/31/06 at 2:49am
My mom went overdue with three of her four babies about two weeks (Not ME! I'm the prompt one that showed up on my due date--uninduced). She said a surefire way to make sure you go into labor is to exhaust and distract yourself all day, then right before you collapse into bed, say VERY loudly to your partner (and loudly enough for the baby to hear clearly, too), "This is the ONE night I do NOT want to have this baby."

Supposedly, it works like a charm!

.....that could just be that all her kids were contrary, though.....

Good luck! Hang in there! We're all rooting for you!
post #24 of 57
8/31/06 at 3:02am
Just wondering if there is any change yet? I am hoping labor begins soon (or already has)!
post #25 of 57
8/31/06 at 6:47am
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Qalliope
I could say, just relax and enjoy this time, you won't get to be pregnant for much longer, and you'll miss it when it's gone, but it sounds like you're way past the point of that being helpful.
Oh yes, definately true.
I like your idea of pregnancy transition. It makes perfect sense.

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Originally Posted by augustacherri
a surefire way to make sure you go into labor is to exhaust and distract yourself all day, then right before you collapse into bed, say VERY loudly to your partner (and loudly enough for the baby to hear clearly, too), "This is the ONE night I do NOT want to have this baby."

Supposedly, it works like a charm!

.....that could just be that all her kids were contrary, though.....
: I think I might try that. My baby is very contrary. I once asked her if we could find a position where we were both comfortable, and I totally heard this little voice in my head that said "well, I'm comfortable!!"
Little monster!

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Originally Posted by Kidzaplenty
Just wondering if there is any change yet? I am hoping labor begins soon (or already has)!
Not yet (sigh)
I think I figured it out though. She is waiting until september so she is past the school deadline and I have an extra year to convinve DH to home school!!
(I think he thinks that we are not mature enough to handle the full responsibility of educating another human being!!)

I guess she'll come when she is ready. (sigh) it'd better be soon.....
I really beleive that I am in labor, just early labor, she'll be here soon.

~Moose
post #26 of 57
8/31/06 at 12:16pm
Good luck to you, Moose! I hope she's in your arms soon. :
post #27 of 57
8/31/06 at 1:01pm
plz darling keep us updated......... SEX worked everytime for me.. nipple stimulation....ohhhh EAT something SPICY.. a fire hot taco!!!!and then rock out to some load music.. thats my fav thign to do right before i had both my babys... good luck Moose
post #28 of 57
8/31/06 at 1:44pm
I'm so excited for you Moose! With my #1 I actually went a week early (I know you don't want to hear that ) But I wasn't ready! I LOVED being pregnant and was actually sad that it was over, I fully expected, it being my first time and all that I would go AT LEAST one week overdue, possibly two.

Anyway, KIND of started things with this last babe (approaching 5 months old now) Dh and I got together (it was goofy uncomfortable, and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone kind of sex) But contractions started immediately and lasted the weekend (it was saturday afternoon) She was born late Monday after a very SHORT (aprx 2 1/2 hours) easy active labor.

Good Luck, hon. Try to remember what a magical time you are in the middle of, it's right around the corner now. We're all cheering for you!!

Kat
post #29 of 57
8/31/06 at 6:57pm
post #30 of 57
9/1/06 at 1:42am
if you haven't birth yet- I really believe you are in prodromal labor. That's good! But tiring. Try to rest for the BIG moment ~ it's coming soon!

all my best
post #31 of 57
9/1/06 at 2:30am
Thread Starter 

Update

Still nothing.
Everybody keeps mentioning sex. It isn't working.
We had already been trying that.
I've been walking. I've walked until I literally puked. I've tried sleeping as much as I could. I'v tried not sleeping for extended period of time hoping the fatigue might trigger something. I've done it all. I even went looking for catsor oil at the base exchange, unfortuntely, they don't carry it, and off base the Japanese have no idea what I'm talking about!!

*sigh*
I guess I'll just have to wait. However, If I get one more "when are you going in for your induction?" phone call from well meaning "freinds" I might hurt somebody.

~Moose
post #32 of 57
9/1/06 at 3:03am
hang in there momma!! I'm in the same boat. Not quite as overdue, but these dates mean NOTHING!!! Our little ones will make their big debut at the perfect moment! I just know it. I'm getting impatient myself, but I don't want to tire myself out by trying all of the natural induction techniques in the book! I decided tonight that I wanted to do a belly cast. I figured it would surely cause labor to start...nope! I need to clean a bit more, but my nesting urge has vanished!! Wonder if that means I still have a couple more weeks? : I stopped answering the phone a few days ago. I really can't take it anymore!! Just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone and that I'm sending all of the labor vibes I can across the world and to your womb! Rest up...we're gonna need it!!
post #33 of 57
9/1/06 at 3:07am
Sorry that you have nothing going on.

But, hey! If the sex ain't doin' it, at least it's fun!

Have you tried all your "spicy foods" that's suppose to help. Not for me though, because that is my daily diet (I LOVE mexican). I am sure you can find some sort of spice foods over their that might just do the trick.

Otherwise, you will just have to keep pestering your DH until baby decides to come. :
post #34 of 57
9/1/06 at 4:23pm
Thread Starter 

Update

It's 4:00 AM and I can't sleep.....I really am hoping this time, I am having a lot of bloody show!!!!!! YAY!!!!

My lower abdomen feels really achy, and I feel oh so pukey.
If I really go into labor, I'll let you know.

Send me good vibes, I think this baby is around the corner!!!

~Moose
post #35 of 57
9/1/06 at 4:27pm
Thinking of you and sending you good labor vibes. I can't wait to hear your announcement. It is going to be so exciting for to finally meet your baby. I am keeping you in my thoughts and hoping this is it! :
Wendi
post #36 of 57
9/1/06 at 7:23pm
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Keep us posted!
post #37 of 57
9/1/06 at 8:39pm
sending labor energy and "come out baby" vibes!

cant wait for an update!
post #38 of 57
9/1/06 at 8:45pm
GO MOOSE!!!! I REALLY hope this is it!!! Keep us posted!!!!


ELV's for you and your little one!!!!
post #39 of 57
9/1/06 at 8:54pm
Just read your post from a few hours ago hoping you are doing ok and holding your little one. Please update when you get a chance.
post #40 of 57
9/2/06 at 4:34am
Thread Starter 
Well, I've been having ctx, and right now they are about 5 min apart, and getting stronger everytime.
I guess This is really it!!!!!

I hope the little person will be here soon!!

~Moose
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