Can you repost? I've had a few post that didn't get many replies but lots of people read them. One possible thing that might help in the future is to giv eyour thread a bump

Just in case you don't know, that's when you just respond to your own thread (or another's) so that it gets bumped to the top of the forum. When I see a bumped thread like that, I try to respond. It means someone is really trying to get an answer. Some threads just get missed.
Not sure what you wrote but my dd is a late dev who has since learned to embrace it. She doesn't need to worry about bras or periods. After I pointed that out to her, she had one of those uh-ha moments. She knows eventually those things will come and in the long run, assuming nothing is physically/hormonely (sp?),it will not matter. Also not on her radar: boyfriends, clothes (for as long they are comfortable/not dorky, that is all that matters), nails, hair, "in crowd" obsession, shaving, "in" music group, etc. Oddly enough on her radar: doing well in school (wants to be an MD), karate, babysitting, politics (npr junkie here), and getting together with friends (both girl and boy friends) every once in awhile, Discovery Health Channel. I guess each child will turn into an adult at their own pace and do it their own way. It can be hard when you're either the first or the last! Just keep pointing out all the good things about her, all that makes her special.
I'm sorry I missed your earlier post
