Originally Posted by MommyMine
dh is saying he is your child's father, he met you on leave while you were a stripper and you slept with him? Or that you had an affair on him while he was deployed and you were a stripper?
Either way you are a stripper?
I think it is best to be honest with kids. One of my cousins was raised as if her mother's husband was her father. After her mother and father died she learned that my uncle was actually her father. It was a huge blow and of course her parents were no longer around to talk to about it.
Well I *used* to be a stripper acctually..
And he's saying that, we've known each other since we were kids (true) Had an off again on again relationship since grade 4 (true) and one time when he was on leave visiting his parents who lived about an hour away from where I used to live and work (true) He came down to visit me (NOT true) and we renewed the flame I ran away from at 19 (We did do the deed when we were both 19...I was fresh out of an abusive relationship though so I ran like stink) and I got pregnant with his kid (NOT true)
I was dating a neo-nazi skinhead at the time. Not stripping, I was out of that by then, I was an alcoholic/drug addict self medicating due to PTSD from a rape and all that good stuff. So my anger and hate drew me to a Neo-nazi. Had sex in a drunken stupor, condom broke, pill failed. and voila got pregnant with DD. not very glamourous...Sobered up when I got that second line, but unfortunately had to live with teh Bio-idiot for survival (due to extreme poverty) till DD was 8 weeks old and given the go ahead to fly to live with my parents.
Luckily my sister was living in the area, because one night in a drunken rage the Bio-Idiot whipped a CD at my newborn DD's head. I caught it on the arm. Loaded her in the bucket, took the money out of the hiding place that my mother left for me when she was around during my babymoon "just in case" she said. Well it came to be just in case. Called a cab and my sister from the pay phone while loaded up with a cat carrier, a suitcase, and a baby bucket + Base and left. Mom flew me, DD and my cat out within the week.