mona, maybe you could just put a futon in your big bedroom on the floor, or change her bed to something bigger. and put a fan or other noisemaker so you don't hear every little noise (sorry, that takes getting used to as well, but for us is necessary).
i am on the outlook for a full sized bed from freecycle.
haha, she has a loud noisemaker, but that is so she doens't wake up from us. her monitor is right next to her bed, and so i choose to hear her every peep. lol
if not, i wouldnt' get in there till she was hysterical i thnk. maybe i need to turn it down a bit, however, so i'm not hearing the small peeps.
as for the belly, is she pooping regularly, and do you take her to pee when she wakes? laying on the left side is best for digestion.
casina, do you not do the entire santa clause thing>? i know we've talked about this all before but now i can't remember who does and who doesn't.
casina- sorry about your van, i'm glad you are ok tho.