Well, I got the telling of my paternal Grandmother, and my Mom/Maternal Grandmother done today. From the first Grandma I got the usual response of "Oh how wonderful! I love babies!" She also says at least I did a better job of spacing out my 3rd and 4th than she did her 1st and 2nd (only 10 months), so that I shouldn't let what anyone else says get to me. I love my Grandma. My Mom just said that what is is, so we will just deal with it and move on. I imagine that she told her Mom as soon as she got off the phone with me, since she was there when I called. So that wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, and now I can rest easier. *sigh*
Now to tell dh's family. Don't know that I can tell them the same way I did my family.
They are good people, just big worriers. Good luck to everyone when they tell family. I hope that everyone gets at least one IRL positive response.
Now to tell dh's family. Don't know that I can tell them the same way I did my family.
They are good people, just big worriers. Good luck to everyone when they tell family. I hope that everyone gets at least one IRL positive response.
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