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Has anyone else seen this, "Breast Isn't Always Best?"  

post #1 of 34
Thread Starter 
ARGH!!!

I would like to scream with frustration at the misinformation upon which this woman makes her claims...knowing how many out there will believe her without checking for themselves...

http://www.canada.com/nationalpost/n...8-d0875043e1ee
post #2 of 34
[Like everyone else, I was pressed into service shortly after labour. Midwife "A" advised me to breastfeed every three hours for 15 minutes on each breast. Midwife "B" revised that to 20 minutes every two hours, while Midwife "C" told me to nurse Max "on demand."]

I vote for midwife C!

I'm very glad I do my own research on these things. Honestly, if you just believe what you're told, and you're told something different by everyone you see, it's no wonder it doesn't work out! It's got to be confusing!
post #3 of 34
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On Day 15, Max's doctor recommended that we top up every breastfeed with a bottle. Forty-five minutes of breastfeeding, another half-hour bottle-feeding, a few good pumping sessions thrown in, and I would officially be doing nothing else.

"I think I'll forget the breastfeeding," I told the doctor, who didn't look surprised.
And one more doc successfully sabatoges breastfeeding instead of actually helping. Sigh.
post #4 of 34
Many breastfed children are brought in to her "half-starving"; she added that breastfed children actually suffer from more allergies.


RIGHT. SURE. In what world is that true?

What a stupid lady. I'm ashamed she's Canadian.
post #5 of 34
bah.

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Hate those articles. Hate them. Make me want to yell. bah.
post #6 of 34
Grrr...
post #7 of 34
OMG, that's horrible! And WTF was this-" not just a hungry baby whose needs I had to attend to 24/7." Isn't that the definition of parenthood? :
post #8 of 34
Note that she gives no information about this supposed nutritionist who claims that bf babies are half-starving and more prone to allergies. :

You'd think a little more research would have gone into her article. She got lousy advice. BF on demand - work with a good LC if you seem to have problems - and docs and lactation seldom connect in terms of accurate information.

Are there really so many LCs who give poor advice (these scheduled duration nursing sessions?)? Are they really LCs or are they home health nurses who may not have lactation education beyond what they got in nursing school?? My LC was really great. She helped save our bf relationship.
post #9 of 34
Ugh, does she realize the protection from before the birth only lasts about 3 months?

And that nutritionist she's been talking to...yeah, I bet she's SO much more experienced and edcuated than the many, many people who conducted the research and made the conclusions about breastmilk being best.

This is just ridiculous. Why would we move on from something that has such immense benefits for mother and child? She listed 3, but there are so many more.

Why would we want women to debate whether formula is on par with breastmilk when we know it's not?

And the may doesn't mean it's not proven. It means that breastfeeding does lower the chances of illness and allergy, but that it doesn't always prevent them because other factors such as environment and heredity play a role as well.

Here, I wrote her a letter....

I read your article about breastfeeding and was very unimpressed, disgusted, and confused.

I have to wonder what credentials your nutritionist friend has to challenge what is commonly accepted by the medical community and why it is she thinks her own experience is the norm. Are the children half-starving because their mother's milk is not nutritious? Or is it due to low supply, latch problems, or perhaps an inadeuqate feeding schedule? You didn't specify that in your article.

As for baby's having protective antibodies before birth, this is very true. However, that protection only lasts about three months--whereas the protection from breastfeeding lasts as long as the nursing relationship continues and even a few months thereafter. Why should we encourage women not to breastfeed, because the baby will be protected for three months from the antibodies from the placenta--when we could encourage them to breastfeed as long as possible, so that the baby will be protected for many more months?

You stated only 3 of the benefits of breastfeeding for the child. There are many more. You also failed to mention any of the benefits for the mother, such as the reduced risk of cancer. Moreover, you seem to think that "may" means that these are theories, not proven facts. The truth is that breastfeeding does significantly decrease the risks of a baby developing allergies, ear infections, and other ailments. However, the reason it doesn't always prevent them is because other factors such as environment and heredity play a part.

Why would we want women to debate rather formula is on par with breastmilk, when all evidence suggests it's not? It doesn't have the same digestive properties of breastmilk, and if it did, it wouldn't take babies so much longer to digest formula--nor would their poop smell so terrible after a formula bottle but not after a nursing session. It doesn't have the same antibodies, or overall, breastfed babies in general wouldn't be healthier, as all medical research has proven. Formula fed babies are more likely to be obese, and some research suggestions breastfeeding can raise IQ. Why would we want to move on from something that is clearly a much healthier and less expensive alternative, just as it is, to anything presently manufactured by mankind?

You claim the benefits of breastfeeding taper off after 4-6 months; however, there is a significant amount of research out there that proves breastfeeding even into toddlerhood has benefits for both mother and child--as well as to suggest that children were designed to be nursed until age two. My son has been nursing for 14 months. In his first year he had a mild cold that resulted in a short visit to the clinic, but no medication or treatment other than to have his nose squeegeed. Last month, he had a stomach virus that lasted about a week and resulted in a visit to the ER. He has no allergies. Could he just be a very healthy baby with great genes and a wonderful environment? Sure, but it's doubtful considering we live in a huge city, and there's a history of many illnesses and allergies in our families. If the benefits of breastfeeding only last 4-6 months, it makes me wonder why it is that he's had so few ailments in so many months of life. Something in the water, perhaps? According to you it's probably not my antibodies, so I have to wonder what it is that makes my child so fit. It can't be what he's eating, since he's breastfeeding, and you say that has nothing to do with it. Gee. I'm really stumped.

Besides the anonymous nutritionist you mentioned in your article, what are your sources? Are these just your own musings, thoughts that are logical to you? Do you have any research, any medical proof to back these claims up? Obviously your own experience is very valid, and there will always be women for whom breastfeeding doesn't work out. There are very real obstacles to overcome to carry on a successful nursing relationship, and women do need to be educated about them. However, no one will attempt to overcome those hurdles if misinformation such as "formula is just as good" is being handed out, and then the children will not receive the benefits of breastfeeding that medical science has proven exist. Could you please send me a copy of your bibliography for the article so that I can read for myself the sources of your claims?

Comparing breastfeeding to high death rates during child birth really doesn't help the situation at all and is quite a ridiculous comparison, considering high death rates while natural are of course unhealthy. New technology has lowered that number and improved the quality of healthcare. However, for all of our medical advancements, while we have managed to make birthing safer, we have not yet managed to manipulate cow milk to make it better than or even as good as natural breastmilk. I really don't see the point of making this comparison at all. Why compare the most healthy form of nourishing an infant to death? The pain of breastfeedng is nothing like the pain of childbirth, and the outcome of what was once natural childbirth is not nearly as desirable as the outcome of a nursing relationship that has received support, information, and guidance from the experienced.

I am awaiting your response and am eager to read the research, studies, and medical facts upon which you have based these claims. Being educated about such issues is, to me, part of being a good parent, so I am always interested in reading any new information about this subject.
post #10 of 34
"Still, she kept at it for a year and, now with her second child, she is breastfeeding again. Why? Because it's "natural." But so, until relatively recently, were unprotected sex and high death rates for women during childbirth -- but no one wants to turn the clock back in these areas."


Is this woman really comparing breastfeeding to unprotected sex and high maternal death rates during childbirth???: So, I guess I shouldn't be surprised by he next quote....

"It was the right decision. Freed from the tyranny of breastfeeding, I began to relate to Max as a little person -- not just a hungry baby whose needs I had to attend to 24/7."

Yup, we ALL had kids because we knew it was only an 8 hour a day job (insert sarcasm). She must be the onl one who doesn't realize that a child is a 24/7 job whether they are breastfed or formula fed?? Our babies just aren't as stinky .
post #11 of 34
Great letter Heather.
post #12 of 34
This just makes me want to cry. My DD was a 30wk preemie, and I didn't GET to breastfeed her. I got pg 4 weeks after she was born, and relactated twice in order to keep pumping. By the time DD was 10 weeks old, I was completely dry and had NO milk for her. I was devastated.

I'm praying that when my colostrum comes back in a few weeks I'll be able to develop a nursing relationship with her and will get to tandem nurse she and her future brother. I would give almost anything to have been able to breastfeed my daughter from birth, cracked bleeding nipples or not.

Maybe babies have to be born at less than 3 pounds for their mothers to realize how important breastmilk is.
post #13 of 34
Thread Starter 
my dh just read the article and commented that people who want to write letters would be wise to address them (also?) to the editors of the publication itself.

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What came to mind as i was stewing about this last night was the fact that she claims there are no 'facts' about the superiority of breastmilk because the 'benefits' are couched in 'may' language. My comment to this hearkens back to the pro-bf ad campaign (you know, the one that addressed breastfeeding as the biological norm, and talked about the RISKS associated with formula feeding!!!) which ended up being watered down due to lobbying by the all-powerful formula manufacturers (who apparently had their hands in the pockets of the APA)


GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

i hate this bs propaganda.

she refers to bf 'tyrrany'. I really feel badly for her that she got such poor advise, had an MD who couldn't or wouldn't support BF, and that she had so little support or knowledge herself.

It's fine for people to make informed decisions for themselves, but she was poorly served by people who should have supported her, and is now passing off her opinions as fact.
post #14 of 34
This is the part that sickens me the most.......

Quote:
Freed from the tyranny of breastfeeding, I began to relate to Max as a little person

I wonder if she would have felt this way if she'd had ONE midwife.....a homebirth midwife who came to her home & lovingly counseled her on all the beautiful things about breastfeeding.

....or if she had had an unassisted birth & an experienced mama to gently help her out with breastfeeding.....someone who respected the sacredness of it.
post #15 of 34
Anyone else curious to know if the nutritionist thought breastfeeding babies were underweight because he/she was using the old CDC growth charts?
post #16 of 34
Seen it, hate it, moving on, 'cause skyrocketing blood pressure does me no good...
post #17 of 34
I loved Heather's letter, too. Great job! I hope that the article writer considers what Heather wrote.

All that "turn back the clock stuff" and describing BF as feeling like "tyranny" is really too much. Here is a NEWSFLASH: Babies *do* need their mothers 24/7 when they are just a few weeks old.

Here is what I am thinking about writing to her:

Dear Writer,

Are you smoking crack?

Sincerely,
Jean

(just kidding. I wouldn't send that. But, I *will* think it)
post #18 of 34
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Arwyn
Seen it, hate it, moving on, 'cause skyrocketing blood pressure does me no good...
I hear you!
post #19 of 34
So bottlefed babies don't need 24/7 care? Since when?
post #20 of 34
Articles like this always make me sad. Partly because it is too bad this women had a difficult time breast feeding and it wasn't the wonderful life changing experience it was for me. She has a right to her opinion I guess and to share it with others though. It is too bad that she wasn't prepared for breast feeding, and was very likely was doing it wrong "my back felt permanently hunched over". She was confused by all the medical advice, but not support she was receiving.

Many comments rub me the wrong way too like "Freed from the tyranny of breastfeeding, I began to relate to Max as a little person -- not just a hungry baby whose needs I had to attend to 24/7. " What exactly did she expect?

Or the self satisfaction she got from her friend admitting that breast feeding was difficult for her too. Instead taking comfort in the fact that she wasn't the only person with struggles with this topic, she took it as validation that breast feeding is bad. (even though her friend preservers and did have an enjoyable experience with breast feeding in addition to the struggles of it.)

No one said being mother was easy. A more appropriate title instead of breast isn't always best would be "Breast feeding doesn't work for every one and I was one."

Like I said before, too bad she didn't enjoy breast feeding, or was able to make it work for her and her son. All this article shows is she is bitter about it and still wants validation for giving up.

Yes breast feeding can be a challenge, it is worth it. It can be hard, and it can be wonderful. Just like being parent.
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