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My dd has been attending a Montessori school since age 3. She's been wanting to go to "Kindergarten" since the beginning of last year. We decided to leave her in Montessori for her Kindergarten year, but she's built up Kindergarten as some magical place in her mind and she's really disappointed that she's going to Montessori for K. Her school doesn't go beyond K (it's very small), so she'll be going to public school for 1st grade.

We know going to K in Montessori school is going to be better for her in the long run, but how do we convey that to her? She'll be learning more stuff in Montessori than regular K, there's only 9 kids in her class as opposed to 20 in public school. She already knows the teachers (although she has had trouble with the K teacher in the past. She's a bit more demanding than the other teachers). Most of her friends are still there. *sigh*

If I build up Montessori to be ever so much better to her than public school, am I going to screw myself once she starts 1st grade? :

Thoughts? Anyone? She'll be 5 in November, so she meets our district's cut-off for K, and she's academically & socially ready for K.
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I think I would just emphasize that this *is* kindergarten and that kindergarten at the public school isn't any different, its just that public school kids don't get to go until Kindergarten, but she was lucky enough to go earlier because she's in a Montessori program.

Kindergarten does *sound* like a fun place.
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we had the same thing happen this year with our DD. it didn't help that some of her primary friends from last year DID actually go to KG in public school. We just reminded her that she gets to stay with her teacher and all her old friends and (at least at her school) primary & KG are mixed until 1:00, and between 1-3 it's just KG in the room, so that is her special KG time. It seemed to help.

You could also talk up Montessori *kindergaten* to her and explain why it's more fun or better than PS KG (stay with their friends, same teacher, they go full day, they get lunch, etc.). They don't go past 1st grade, so it's a non issue after that, and you're not comparing Montessori to public school but Montessori KG to pubilc KG, kwim?

Good luck!
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