Salaam Aleikum, Makdoht! I agree with you totally. I just read the new Alfie Kohn book about homework and and I think he'd agree with you as well. I understand that there are some (parents and teachers) who believe that homework will somehow imbue children with responsibility, study habits, and learning, but after thinking about it, I realize I am not one of them.
I have a thread over in Parenting Issues as well about this topic (what do you think about homework).
The issue is, how do we talk to teachers about it? Can you go to the teacher and tell them your PERSONAL preference is for your son to not have homework at all; or a halfway point, like bringing in "work" he does at home unasked (I don't know, whatever he's into - drawing, coloring, stories he tells you, whatever). I pointed out to my daughter's teacher that we have a busy family life, and she's already there for six hours per day. If an adult brought work home with them after a full day, they'd be called a workaholic.
My opening line to the teacher was, "So - homework. I'm not into that."
