need kindergarten transition help

[mhr1406]

Is there anything I can do? My ds has been at home with me for 5 1/2 years and he just started kindergarten. The first couple of days were great but now he has been crying in the car before I can get him home. I think he is now realizing that this is our new normal and is having trouble with the transition. Can anyone make any suggestions on ways I can help him?
TIA

[Beth-TX]

I made a "hug" for my daughter to take to school in her pocket. I cut 2 layers of felt, added a little stuffing and sewed them together. I added a little tether so I could attach it to her pants but she could still pull it out of her pocket to look at it.

I also included a little drawing in her lunchbox every day--usually a picture of me, daddy, little sister, the cat, etc. Something to remind her of home.

I think these things helped her a lot. She actually told me, after her first day, about something upsetting that had happened, but then she pulled out her hug and felt better.

HTH.

peace, Beth

[marysmomjacksmom]

Sassafras and The Kissing Hand are great books to help with school transitions. I highly recommend them, I saw both of these books work for many over the 10 years I taught school.

[mhr1406]

Thank you so much for the replies!!!!!!!! I loved the suggestions I think I am going to try the books as well as the hug, and photo idea.

[mmgarda]

Not just THE KISSING HAND. . .

...but POCKET FULL OF KISSES, too. It's the follow-up book and I notice you have a younger sib in the house.

Worked WONDERS for us. Now my DS1 gives ME a kissing hand before I go somewhere!

[GearGirl]

Also know that this is very common, the thrill wears off and the reality sets in and it can be very scary, but it will all pass quickly!

[mhr1406]

Thankyou so much!!!!!!! We are going out to find that book!

Thanks for letting me know that it does pass quickly. So far the first weeks have been tough and I am so looking forward for improvements!