Does everyone take a valium at the transfer? For my first two I didn't, and for the last one ( different clinic) it was suggested so I did. I felt "out of it" for 3 days! I mentioned this to my nurse at the retrieval and she said it shouldn't affect your mind or general energy level. I'm hesitant to take it tomorrow because Monday I must care for my son alone. No days of bedrest possible here. Thanks for any imput.






