Originally Posted by MommyMine
the girl labeled as slut usually ends up living up to her label. In anycase it is terribly painful and once the label is applied there is no removing it. Even in a habit you would still be seen as the slutty nun- until you graduate HS.
I was labelled a slut. I wasn't any of the things that the kids calling me a "slut" meant by that. I just dressed that way (including a bra to shove my breasts up and forward and emphasize my cleavage).
My sister was not
labelled a slut. She'd had more sexual partners by age 17 than any other woman I know has had in their late 30's. She had sex with guys who she knew had girlfriends - she cheated on her own boyfriends - at least once, she conceived a baby in an attempt to hold onto a boyfriend.
My cousins were both labelled sluts. One of them got the label because
she was "sleeping around". The other got it because she had very large breasts, long blonde hair and huge blue eyes. She's very happily monogamously married to a man she met when she was 16.
I've seen no evidence that the "girl labelled as a slut usually ends up living up to her label". I don't use that particular label, myself (although I did apply it to a male friend of mine once - his behaviour was disgusting, and I was trying to make a point). If the OP's dd is being targetted with this kind of crap (being labelled a slut, for example) because she's developing early, a bra isn't going to change that. A bra holds them up and shapes them - it doesn't hide them.