Hi, all,
I am asking this with some trepidation, since I know it's a very charged subject... heck, it's pretty charged for *me*... but I'm going in for my next checkup tomorrow afternoon and I feel like I need to do a lot of thinking beforehand. Sunday will be 42 weeks... which I realize is not extreme at all, since Teddy seems fine, I am physically fine, etc. However, I know we will be discussing "options" tomorrow.
The factors here that make me feel like considering doing anything but just plain waiting:
1) I am fairly certain that the two most wonderful nurses, who I've already met, befriended, bonded with, been cared for by, will be on call starting today and tomorrow. (when I was in over the weekend for the second time in 2 days to be checked, flipping out because I was exhausted and worried, and said 'I must be the most high maintenance pregnant lady ever, you must think I'm nuts' they said, 'no, actually we hope you'll hold on until we're working again, and if anything we're going to fight over who gets to labor with you.')
2) my mom is taking next week off from work (not to pressure me.. but because she needs a mental health week or she's going to quit her job in frustration)
I just talked with a friend who was induced, once at 10 days, once at 12, by having her water broken... and was in labor within hours both times. We had a serious discussion about what a difficult decision it was for her... that required a lot of deep searching and painful questioning... but that ultimately she felt she'd made the right choice for her.
So... for anyone who's willing to even contemplate this question... any thoughts? Or ideas about different things to consider? for instance, I wonder if they would go along with me trying Cervidil and NOT planning to have my water broken if that isn't enough on its own? The wild card here, which I still wonder about, is the possibility of old scarring from laser surgery making my cervix unable to dilate on its own. I'm not trying to psyche myself out, but it is a possibility.
I haven't decided I'm willing to/ interested in being induced at all. I just don't make any decisions--including decisions NOT to do something--without thinking over all sides.
I am asking this with some trepidation, since I know it's a very charged subject... heck, it's pretty charged for *me*... but I'm going in for my next checkup tomorrow afternoon and I feel like I need to do a lot of thinking beforehand. Sunday will be 42 weeks... which I realize is not extreme at all, since Teddy seems fine, I am physically fine, etc. However, I know we will be discussing "options" tomorrow.
The factors here that make me feel like considering doing anything but just plain waiting:
1) I am fairly certain that the two most wonderful nurses, who I've already met, befriended, bonded with, been cared for by, will be on call starting today and tomorrow. (when I was in over the weekend for the second time in 2 days to be checked, flipping out because I was exhausted and worried, and said 'I must be the most high maintenance pregnant lady ever, you must think I'm nuts' they said, 'no, actually we hope you'll hold on until we're working again, and if anything we're going to fight over who gets to labor with you.')
2) my mom is taking next week off from work (not to pressure me.. but because she needs a mental health week or she's going to quit her job in frustration)
I just talked with a friend who was induced, once at 10 days, once at 12, by having her water broken... and was in labor within hours both times. We had a serious discussion about what a difficult decision it was for her... that required a lot of deep searching and painful questioning... but that ultimately she felt she'd made the right choice for her.
So... for anyone who's willing to even contemplate this question... any thoughts? Or ideas about different things to consider? for instance, I wonder if they would go along with me trying Cervidil and NOT planning to have my water broken if that isn't enough on its own? The wild card here, which I still wonder about, is the possibility of old scarring from laser surgery making my cervix unable to dilate on its own. I'm not trying to psyche myself out, but it is a possibility.
I haven't decided I'm willing to/ interested in being induced at all. I just don't make any decisions--including decisions NOT to do something--without thinking over all sides.











: ) because I knew I would be induced the following day. It defiantely got things moving, though things were super slow and other complications arose that led to pitocin. Uh. avoid that stuff like the plague!!!



: ), I woke up, promptly felt really rotten, got violently ill, started having shaking chills and panting. Fun!! I scared the (*^& out of my husband (and, frankly, myself). I didn't think I was in labor, but I did think somebody should check me out, so since I was due to show up for my checkup in the afternoon anyway, I went down to the hospital. By the time I got there, I felt better, but hung out on the monitor for a while anyway and chatted with my terrific nurse.


). I have been taking a mixture of Red Raspberry and the cohoshes since 36 weeks (up to 12 tabs a day) and also EPO orally and vag. We've been doing nipple stim, squatting, sitting on my ball. I did castor oil
Tuesday and yesterday. DH and I had sex Wednesday night that brought on very light contractions, so I got up immediatley and started Cohosh tinctures every 30 minutes. Same thing yesterday, very light contractions, never leading into anything. If I am still pregnant Monday, and since we will have tried everything we possibly can by then, my MW's would like to break my water so we can still try for a homebirth. The idea of it makes me want to
, but I absolutley do not want to go to the hospital.
...But I thought I would give you my experience. For an induction it was a great experience, and very close to the birth I wanted to have. I will think of you Monday... maybe we can hold hands thru cyberspace and go into the hospital together if it comes down to that 