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post #1 of 7
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Here are a few of my experiences so far breastfeeding my third:

- at an impromtu lunch at a nice chinese restaurant last week after a visit to a nearby playground, Nate woke up hungry. Since it was 11:30am the restaurant wasn't very busy yet, the 3 male waiters were standing at the other end of the room staring in our direction. So of course I whip it out regardless and feed him a little. In the midst of burping him while my husband and the other boys are washing their hands in the restroom, our young waiter comes over with our appetizer and starts commenting on what a big boy Nate is, and asking "how many pound?" etc. in broken english. He didn't seem to get it that I needed to continue feeding him and I felt odd doing it with a 20 something stranger standing next to me. So I waited until A.J. came running back into the room which scared him off, heheh. I guess I learned what my nursing-in-public "limit" is. LOL.

- On a really happy note, we left the older boys at home with my mother to go to an evening meeting and potluck for new parents at the cooperative preschool. There were 3 other babies there, 2 in "buckets", one in a sling who later ended up in her bucket seat. But every baby ended up being breastfed at some point throughout the night, and not at all discreetly, so I felt right at home! The boys start preschool there on tuesday. And their teachers came this week for home visits to meet them.
post #2 of 7
I always felt like women should be free to bf when and whereever and tend to get on my soapbox about it but now that it is me I am surprisingly shy to whip it out in public and don't really know how to be discreet. I usually go someplace private for the latch on, put a burp cloth over me and come back in the room. I don't get it, I am not modest normally at all! My mom even basically yelled at me this weekend when I took Aria out of the room at her house to nurse her away from my father, BIL and grandfather, telling me I need to get over it and shouldn't feel like I have to leave the room to feed my child. Weird thing is, it isn't that I think THEY will be uncomfortable, it is that I am!
post #3 of 7
I think that my dh is more embarrassed than I am when I just sit down and nurse ds in public. So far I have nursed in the waiting room at the chiroprators, in a resturant, on a picnic bench at the state park, and all the time in my van with the doors open so the air comes in. Yesterday, I was sitting at the gas station nursing with the doo r open and not at all covered up and 3 guys get out of their garbage truck and walked past. They were all gawking like a bunch of schoolboys and surprisingly I didn't care. My dh looks a little uncomfortable when he's with me but he hasn't said anything. I think my biggest thing was nursing him when my MIL was at my house. She always says to go in the other room at ther house so I respect that since I'm at her house, unless none of the other family members are present. At my parents, I just feed him when he's hungry right there unless my sisters' husbands are there. We all saw my mom bfing all our lives so its no big deal.
post #4 of 7
So far I have nursed ds at the park, in the waiting room at the midwife, and walking the aisles in target. I have a maya wrap that I am slowly getting the hang of for semi-discrete nip. I never could figure it out with dd and generally tried to find a quiet some-what private place to nurse her. Now I find myself not caring at all - maybe it is because I am chasing the 2 year old and just don't have the time or inclination to try to nurse.

On the cute side, dd has started nursing her toys. Pooh bear, tiny wind up plastic frog, stuffed monkey, rubber duckie in the tub. She lifts her shirt and says to the toy "Want guk?(what she calls bf'ing)" Too cute. A future lactavist in the making.
post #5 of 7
With both boys it's always taken me a few weeks to feel comfortable to NIP, but I'm at the comfortable place now and have nursed in restaurants, the HS that dh is employed at, at the park, at MIL's, and in front of every family member in a 100 mile radius. I've been through this before, so fortunately, none of our family members are making comments about "you know, there are pumps you can buy so you don't have to do that." :
post #6 of 7
Well, after 3 nurslings I have gotten pretty expert at nursing discreetly -- but yesterday I nursed (another plug for the Target Nursing Camisole, btw) and a friend stopped by and I was burping the baby so I get up to say howdy and she is like "You can go ahead and put your boob away, I think the baby is done eating."

I am standing there with my gigantor breast fully exposed, I forgot to reattach the clip on the nursing top.

At least I was in my own house.
post #7 of 7
I've nursed in church, in the ped's waiting room & exam rooms, at the zoo, in the car in a parking lot, my parent's, my il's. I'm pretty big all over so I do my best to cover up. I read somewhere that most people are more uncomfortable with the exposed stomach, than the little bit of breast. I cover up to latch him on, then pull the blanket back so he can breathe and I can see what he's doing.

I went to the store the other day with both cups undone and just partially pulled over my breasts. It made some weird wrinkles in my shirt. Didn't notice till I was home either, lol. oops!
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