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post #1 of 25
9/16/06 at 12:46pm
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Gosh, this is just the month for it, isn't it?

Our clinic called this morning, and none of our embryos survived the thaw.

I am in shock. I just did not see this coming.

Hope all of you who are still going get BFPs. We will try again soon.
post #2 of 25
9/16/06 at 12:47pm
That is hard news.
post #3 of 25
9/16/06 at 2:43pm
I'm sorry to hear that. My FET does not look like it was a success. This was our last try. I'm happy that I have a wonderful 16 month old though.

I'm so proud of us for going through this journey, as it is not easy on our bodies. Keep working on it. I'll be saying a prayer.
post #4 of 25
9/16/06 at 2:50pm


Kristen
post #5 of 25
9/16/06 at 6:22pm
to you, Dena. You'll be in my thoughts.
post #6 of 25
9/16/06 at 10:37pm
I'm so sorry to hear that....and I hope things take a turn for the better soon. Hang in there.
post #7 of 25
9/17/06 at 3:46pm
Dena, I am so sorry to hear that your embies did not make it through the thaw.

You're in my thoughts
post #8 of 25
9/19/06 at 12:30am
Thread Starter 
Thank you everyone. I so appreciate all your kind words.

We have a follow up appointment with our dr. on Thursday, and are tentatively planning a fresh cycle in January. Dh and I are also going to do chinese herbs, and I am going to do acupuncture during that time, just in case we can get really lucky and get a "free" kid.
post #9 of 25
9/21/06 at 3:30am
Oh no, Dena! I am so, very sorry about this. That must have been a terrible shock. I am so sorry!
post #10 of 25
9/21/06 at 10:36pm
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Thanks, Megan.
post #11 of 25
9/23/06 at 8:39am
I'm so sorry Dena. I just read your post. I haven't been here in a while. Maybe we'll be scheduled around the same time next time too. Hopefully, better luck though. And talk about not seeing it coming, I didn't even know there was a possibility of an IVF cancellation until I mentioned my low E2 on another board. Good luck! Is there any chance you'll be able to start a fresh cycle sooner?
post #12 of 25
9/23/06 at 4:50pm
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I know, it really is the last thing you think of.

How are you feeling Jenny? I am still hoping for some good news from you! When do you test?

As for starting sooner, we had an appt with my RE on Thursday, and I have to wait a month to let my system clear, then they want me to have a clomid challenge test to determine my meds protocol for the IVF. By then, if I start the next cycle right away, we are looking at a retrieval/transfer the week after Christmas, when I am usually tired out and a bit run down from the holidays. So, we figured it would be better to wait another month and do it in January.
post #13 of 25
9/24/06 at 9:43am
That sounds like a good idea.

RE said I can POAS on Wed. I've been feeling crampy but not sure if it's just the random pain I get from my endo. I'm hoping it's a good sign becaus it started a little earlier than it usually does. It's hard to stay positive without getting your hopes up at the same time. I'm scared of getting completely crushed again. Anyway, i had a very unusual and terrible dream last night. DH and I had a little girl named Camille (don't know where the name came from??) and I couldn't find her. When I found her she was outside in the front by the gate. I called to her to come back but she opened the gate, left and looked back but ignored me. Then I saw a starnge women she was walking to. I told my dh to get a good look at the women and i ran after her calling Camille!! Come Back!! But she wouldn't even look at me. Then.... my dog woke me up! I'm afraid it meant something. Or maybe I'm just crazy. I did have a little caffeine at my mother's last night.
post #14 of 25
9/24/06 at 4:28pm
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Well, I do know that I had horrible scary dreams when I was pg, and none of them meant anything - just the hormones.

Also, when my dd was about a year old, one of our dogs died, and I had a series of horrible dreams about dd dying. Once I figured out it was just my dreaming mind coping with the stress, they went away. My point is that it could just be a way of you dealing with the stress of IF, or maybe a way for your subconcious to "vocalize" fears that you are having.

I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you and hoping you have good news on Wednesday!
post #15 of 25
9/24/06 at 5:47pm
Good luck Wednesday, Jenny!

I've been having crampy feeling and twinges on and off since yesterday, but I'm just telling myself it's the endo. It's still too soon after the diagnosis for me to determine what's my endo and what could be something else.
post #16 of 25
9/25/06 at 10:42am
Good luck Wednesday, Jenny! : : :
post #17 of 25
9/25/06 at 5:20pm
Well, AF came.

I called the RE just a few min. ago to see when i can start bcp for my new cycle. I'm hoping I can go in November.
post #18 of 25
9/25/06 at 5:26pm
I won't say what I said to myself when I saw your post. I am so very sorry, Jenny.
post #19 of 25
9/25/06 at 5:58pm
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Oh, honey, I am so sorry. I was so hoping for some good news here.

Keep us posted on your next steps. Praying for a magic cycle soon.
post #20 of 25
9/25/06 at 6:08pm
Thank you very much.
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