I had planned a hospital delivery with a doctor I felt comfortable with. I wanted to do it unmedicated and I wanted to wait as long as possible before going to the hospital.
My water broke spontaneously at 7am and I was told by my MIL (a nurse) and my doctor's stand-in (i.e. the doctor on call) to go into the hospital ASAP. I am convinced that this is most of what caused my c-section, because I then "wasn't progressing fast enough," so received pitocin, then the pain was bad so I ended up with Stadol and an epidural, and then, at about 3am, I was about 10cm and tried pushing, but my baby was stuck. Despite forceps, I still had to have a c-section.
I am glossing over the details of my birth experience, which were very far from what I wanted and which still sadden me. But I want to know what I should have done. Do I HAVE to go to the hospital when my water breaks? What about infection? If something like this happens next time, I want to try to avoid the same outcome.
I do wonder, if I did not have pitocin, if he would have just taken his time to turn.
My water broke spontaneously at 7am and I was told by my MIL (a nurse) and my doctor's stand-in (i.e. the doctor on call) to go into the hospital ASAP. I am convinced that this is most of what caused my c-section, because I then "wasn't progressing fast enough," so received pitocin, then the pain was bad so I ended up with Stadol and an epidural, and then, at about 3am, I was about 10cm and tried pushing, but my baby was stuck. Despite forceps, I still had to have a c-section.
I am glossing over the details of my birth experience, which were very far from what I wanted and which still sadden me. But I want to know what I should have done. Do I HAVE to go to the hospital when my water breaks? What about infection? If something like this happens next time, I want to try to avoid the same outcome.
I do wonder, if I did not have pitocin, if he would have just taken his time to turn.




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