Hello. My ds is 6 and in his first year at a M school. I'm continuing to try to understand the philosophy and environment, but from what I've read, seen, etc ~ I really think it is a good fit for ds.
One way I've been trying to understand more is by volunteering in ds's class. I was in the class on Monday giving spelling tests and listening to reading individually. At that time, ds had finished his lessons that were assigned and seemed to be wandering around aimlessly. I heard him approach the teacher asking her when she would be teaching him the lesson she said she would and she told him she was busy and it would have to wait (she was working with other students). He then pulled out a vertebrates lesson that I know he has done several times and sat at the table where I was and pulled out the animals in the baskets that are vertebrates. Then, he put them back in the basket and started wandering again. This continued for another 20 mins until they began to get ready for dismissal.
Yesterday, when ds got home from school, I asked him if he was able to sit with the teacher and do the lesson they were going to do together. He said that they hadn't gotten to it that day, either.
I'm planning on speaking with the teacher to try to learn more about what is and isn't okay for ds to work on when he's finished with the lessons she's listed on the white board. He's a quick learner and worker. Therefore, he may have some chunks of time where he is able to do what he wants. But, I don't think he knows what he can and can't do during this time.
I realize there's definitely an adjustment period for him in getting acclimated to the environment. I don't know if the teacher is noticing him wandering and letting him figure it out on his own or if she's aware of it at all. The older students were definitely not wandering around ~ they were all working on lessons.
I guess my question for those of you reading this would be what typically happens in the class when a child finishes assigned lessons and has free time? How much of this is the child's initiative vs the teacher's initiative?
Thanks!
One way I've been trying to understand more is by volunteering in ds's class. I was in the class on Monday giving spelling tests and listening to reading individually. At that time, ds had finished his lessons that were assigned and seemed to be wandering around aimlessly. I heard him approach the teacher asking her when she would be teaching him the lesson she said she would and she told him she was busy and it would have to wait (she was working with other students). He then pulled out a vertebrates lesson that I know he has done several times and sat at the table where I was and pulled out the animals in the baskets that are vertebrates. Then, he put them back in the basket and started wandering again. This continued for another 20 mins until they began to get ready for dismissal.
Yesterday, when ds got home from school, I asked him if he was able to sit with the teacher and do the lesson they were going to do together. He said that they hadn't gotten to it that day, either.
I'm planning on speaking with the teacher to try to learn more about what is and isn't okay for ds to work on when he's finished with the lessons she's listed on the white board. He's a quick learner and worker. Therefore, he may have some chunks of time where he is able to do what he wants. But, I don't think he knows what he can and can't do during this time.
I realize there's definitely an adjustment period for him in getting acclimated to the environment. I don't know if the teacher is noticing him wandering and letting him figure it out on his own or if she's aware of it at all. The older students were definitely not wandering around ~ they were all working on lessons.
I guess my question for those of you reading this would be what typically happens in the class when a child finishes assigned lessons and has free time? How much of this is the child's initiative vs the teacher's initiative?
Thanks!





