Lemme try, but this is a lame version of a very well-written paragraph. "If you sleep with my wife, it will leave a wound so deep it will take years to heal. But believe me when I say, if that happens, I will love my wife so hard that it will overcome any damage you could possibly do and our marriage WILL HEAL."
Then he said something like, "Now. Do you still want to continue with this?" And Rick just sat there, stunned into silence (and I assume shame).