Originally Posted by ShaggyDaddy
someone needs to tell that guy about restoration!
Islaywhiskey was cut later in life too...and he isn't gonna restore....I think he's of the mind of "I know what I had, and having a facsimile of it would just taunt me even more"
That's what my DH said when I asked him if for some god awful reason he had to get cut and would restore after. He's like "No....I know what I'd lost and a mere facsimile of it would just make me lose it" And I swear when he goes and gets his vaesectomy and he comes back circumcised I will freckin sue the Dr to high heavan and drive him out of practice for good...That's my biggest fear of DH going to get his V. Of course he knows he doesn't need to get circd...but you know, when it's numb down there......unless you're watching. Heck one of my ex's had a close call when he went in for his Vaes...The dr was like "Ok the V is done..and now while you're numb are you SURE you dont want me to take a little off the..." "OH HELLZ NO!!!" "are you POSITIVE"?? I mean this Dr really put the pressure on my ex to get a circ done. And the way he worded it was like "You better consent cuz I already did it" He didn't though..but the thought just...woah.
See it's different in a guy who's been circd from birth because he never really KNEW what he was missing, so a restoration, is better than nothing right? But a guy who's been cut later in life, knowing, experiencing, what it's like, it just would be like a kick in the face because he KNOWS it's not the same...
This is what my DH explained to me anyway...