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post #241 of 257
10/8/06 at 8:28pm
I agree, it's not fair.
post #242 of 257
10/8/06 at 10:32pm
I am so sorry that you do not have a living baby in your arms but that instead you have to pick up his ashes. No mother should ever have to go through that. You are right -- there is no fairness in it at all. I hope you are still feeling supported by those around you and that you can find even the smallest bit of comfort in knowing how many of us are thinking of you.
post #243 of 257
10/8/06 at 11:38pm
It really isn't fair

I'm so sorry.
post #244 of 257
10/9/06 at 12:26am
Ambrose - I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this. Here's a HUGE
post #245 of 257
10/9/06 at 12:17pm
Oh Ambrose....
I cannot imagine what you are going through.
I can tell you this though...I do have the experience of having cremated a loved one.
I can tell you that it brought me personal comfort when I gave great thought of where to put her ashes.
We chose the ocean. Now, everytime I see the ocean I am reminded of my loved one...when we visit the ocean over the summer and I put my toes in the surf, I am reminded of her.
My heart aches for you that you cannot hold your baby. It is my sincere hope that perhaps you will find some sort of peace in a ritual that will bring your comfort (although nothing can diminish your loss).

With love,
Mel.
post #246 of 257
10/9/06 at 12:34pm
I'm so sorry that you are going through this, Ambrose. I hope that you find some strength and peace this week. We are still all here for you.
post #247 of 257
10/9/06 at 12:40pm
I'm so sorry, mama.
post #248 of 257
10/9/06 at 2:58pm
all i can do is cry with you.

i remember all too well when they called and said our daughter was ready to "be picked up"...and the day i got a death certificate in the mail...

I AM SORRY. Know i am crying with you.
post #249 of 257
10/9/06 at 7:05pm
It's not fair. Not even a little bit.

I'm so sorry, Mama.... I've thought of your son every day since you lost him..and I have wished for his peace and your comfort.



My thoughts remain with you, Ambrose, as you take each day minute by minute...

post #250 of 257
10/10/06 at 10:51am
dear ambrose,
I just read through the entire 13 pages. I'm so so sorry for everything you're going through. Your photo tribute was the most amazing thing I've ever seen. I'll forever be touched by your sensitivity and little baby Las's beautiful little life. Thank you so much for opening up and sharing your heart and sorrow. May peace and warmth be with you and your family.
post #251 of 257
10/12/06 at 12:22am
I know I could give you all the in the world and it wouldn't make any difference... seeing those pictures just had me sitting here sobbing uncontrollably. I cannot imagine what pain you must be feeling. I just happened across your thread, and just cannot imagine what could be more painful than this. My words seem so empty compared to what you must be going through. My heart goes out to you and your family.
post #252 of 257
10/13/06 at 1:27am
Oh Love,
The photos are so beautiful. Word can not express the emotions that I felt while watching your amazing son and family. My eyes and heart are overflowing for you, with you. You are a strong women, so strong. My love and prayers continue to be with you.

With healing prayers,
Jenn
post #253 of 257
10/13/06 at 2:17am
Las' life, however so brief, has touched my heart and forever changed your lives. Thank you for sharing your son with us. Hugs and prayers for you Ambrose.
post #254 of 257
10/20/06 at 7:47pm
I'm in tears. My heart aches for you. I don't know what else to say but my prayers are with you during this time.
post #255 of 257
10/21/06 at 2:22am

Thank you!

Thank you all for your kind words.

And THANK YOU to all of you who have sent me and DH condolence cards! They really make us feel better, knowing that others are thinking of us and our son.

Thank you to the mama who sent the $30 check.

Thank you to the mama who sent the beautiful dragonfly blue/green charm. It's sitting next to one of his blankets on his shelf.

I'm sorry that I am not thanking by username/name. I don't have the cards in front of me and DD tore the envelopes while DH and I were reading the cards so some of the envelopes were too torn to read the return addresses. :
post #256 of 257
10/21/06 at 3:29am
I just wanna say how sorry I am for your loss. I just read your story and watched the beautiful video of you and your family with baby LAS.
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
*hugs*
post #257 of 257
10/21/06 at 9:54am
I have thought about you, your family and your beautiful son every day, several times a day since I saw the incredible tribute pictures you posted. What a tragic loss of such a beautiful little boy. I am so sorry.

I will think of you every time I put my little girl in the carrier you sold to me that was intended for Las. I will keep Las in my heart and those pictures will forever remain in my mind. I hope that the pain in your heart eases a bit as time goes on
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