well im 19 years old, kind of young i know. well i have a boyfriend and him and i live together with my 6 1/2 old daughter. he is WONDERFUL, he is such a great father figure. he and i have been back together sence i was 7 months along, i say back together because we were high school sweet hearts and he was the first guy i said i love you to. i think it was HUGE for a 20 year old man to take on myself a pregnant girl and now my daughter aswell. BUT....yes there is a but, my daughters bio-dad is a well....loser. he is 26 years old and lives with her drunk mother. he has a job, and he has had a job for almost a year or so, but he doesnt help me support my daughter. he got DHS involved and now he gets visits once a week. but what i am looking for is some info. see these DHS pricks say that "kaydence needs a relationship with her father" but i am looking for a professional, that has it documented that it is going to hurt the way my daughter grows up to hear "this is daddy" the man that lives with you and the man that has been here for you ever sence you were born, and than once a week for one hour a week hear, "no IM your daddy" and her relate him to someone that doesnt love mommy or isnt around for me. i just think that this is going to put her in a hard spot. and i belive that if i can find some info that proves these workers wrong i might not have to let him see her. he is a very bad man he threatned to kill us both when i was pregnant....and yet they say that its best for her to be around her.....come on now. so if anyone knows of a professional that has documented his/her views that may be simular to myown, please let me know.
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9/25/06 at 9:59pm