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post #21 of 143
Lianne
Finn

for you, mama, and your sweet boy Conor, as you recover and grieve.
post #22 of 143
I have no words as there are none, only s and prayers
post #23 of 143
((((Nina))))

You know that I'm not tackful when it comes to these situations. But please know that we love you and will support you. And you may have been driving the car but there are so many different factors that were going on that lead up to that day. Please don't let the "what if's" eat you up. It's not your fault.
post #24 of 143


I understand how you feel it was your fault; I would feel the same way too. Just remember, you didn't set out to have this result, you were trying to do right by your children. I don't think you did something horrible, you were burnt out (as many mothers are) and are suffering the heartbreaking consequences of taking on too much. Thankyou for sharing your story to remind us to slow down. We all know as parents that we sometimes take on more than we can handle; and you don't always see the breaking point coming. You've probably saved lives by sharing your story and making us all think twice.

When you return home, and it feels as though everyone's judging you; just know that we understand and that we're here for you when you need us. And as other's mentioned before me, please take care of yourself; you still have someone who's looking to you for guideance on how to handle this situation. And please get your DH, Connor and yourself into greif counselling as soon as possible!


..... : for you, and your ENTIRE family, both here and in heaven

Rest peacefully sweet babies, you're with God now.
post #25 of 143
Oh, and thankyou for sharing memories and photo's of your babies and your family on your website. I cried for your loss. I saw that you put your family first...thankyou for reminding me to do the same. I can't tell you how much your story has changed my perspective on life. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou.
post #26 of 143
I am so very, very sorry for your loss
post #27 of 143
I am so very sorry for your loss.
post #28 of 143


i am so sorry
post #29 of 143
: : I'm so sorry.
post #30 of 143
You and your little ones are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so, so sorry.
post #31 of 143


I am so sorry for your loss.
post #32 of 143
I am so sorry for your losses. I can't imagine how you feel. Please try to forgive yourself. We all make mistakes. We are all human, afterall. Please get some counseling. It would be difficult for you to get through this alone.
post #33 of 143
Oh mama...how absolutely positively terrible. I am so very sorry... Oh mama...

: Lianne

: Finn
post #34 of 143
I am so sorry...
post #35 of 143
So incredibly sorry for your loss.
post #36 of 143
Thread Starter 
Interestingly enough Lianne and Conor had tonsilectomies this summer due to severe sleep apnea. DH has been telling me that I need to go get a sleep study done too since we found out how bad theirs were. But that just leads me to another thing to feel guilty about. I kept saying that I didn't have the time to have a sleep study and a tonsilectomy.


I love you too Rachelle Debi and Leetah!!! See you soon. We are coming home tomorrow.


A lady at my church has a friend who had almost the exact same thing happen. She fell asleep at the wheel and lost three of her children. She wants to talk with me and help me deal with the guilt.... since she knows somewhat of what I am going through.



thanks so much...

Nina
post #37 of 143
i am so so sorry.
post #38 of 143
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Much love and strength to you and your family.
post #39 of 143

Hi Nina :)

Hi Nina - It's Carol L. - I moved away from Spokane in 2004 but Amy B. let me know what had happened & Rachelle gave me the link to this post of yours when I asked her how you were doing. I think the last time I saw you was at a LLL meeting and you had Conor there with you. It was the only time I ever met him

I just wanted to tell you that while I know it probably isn't helpful, that I am so very sorry for your loss & there isn't a day that goes by that I haven't thought of you & your family.

Please know that you are in my thoughts.

Blessed Be.

Carol
post #40 of 143
My thoughts & prayers are with you.
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