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post #21 of 26
Ah, but Acksiom, your words did lend a certain je nais se qua to the soup it otherwise lacked. Time or no, I'm glad you did. (Everyone likes praise. )
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Ah, but Acksiom, your words did a certain je nais se qua to the soup it otherwise lacked. Time or no, I'm glad you did. (Everyone likes praise. )
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post #23 of 26
I will give you that it's a men's issue in one aspect - men should be totally up in arms that, as infants, they are not given the same protection and respect that infant girls are given. Our baby boys deserve just as much protection as our girls do, but they are denied it wholeheartedly when it comes to this issue. So I can see calling it a "men's issue" because the fact that it's even acceptable in this day and age is sexist.

Perhaps it's more semantics about what "men's issue" means, though.
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I disagree.....women have a tendency to belittle men's parenting decision. If men do it differently it is wrong. If you look how men are shown in the media as fathers it is usually as them being ignorant and needing help of women. Leave it to Beaver days as dad's being knowledgeable are long gone. Which leads over to women's attitudes.

I have heard women laugh and belittle their baby's father for doing stuff like using Ziploc bags instead of the Playtex bags for those types of bottles. I personally don't see a big deal and have done the same thing in desperation for other peoples kids because I didn't have any bottle feeding stuff. I have heard them ridicule a baby's daddy because he used a straw to feed his sick 6mth old (umm my grandmother use to do that as a nurse and I have seen breast feeding mom's do the same thing). Ridicule for using paper towels to cover the diaper changing table becuase he forgot the diaper changing pad (why does it matter?).
Ok, what I meant was that the choice on weather or not to circumcise a penis belongs to the owner of that particular penis, not the parent of that infant boy. (mother OR father, have a penis or not, if it isn't YOUR penis, it shouldn't be YOUR choice)

I have also noticed (as has my husband) the belittleing of men's parenting skills, especially in the media. A man's experience with his own penis (circumcised or not) shouldn't be disregarded just because he is perceived to be a bumbling idiot of a parent. You can't argue when it is coming straight from the horse's mouth, so to speak.
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A man's experience with his own penis (circumcised or not) shouldn't be disregarded just because he is perceived to be a bumbling idiot of a parent. You can't argue when it is coming straight from the horse's mouth, so to speak.
Unfortunately in a culture where men are not even regarded as minimally competant to wash their intact penises in the shower, they can & do.
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Unfortunately in a culture where men are not even regarded as minimally competant to wash their intact penises in the shower, they can & do.
Good point.
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