Hey, is anyone else feeling like they just want someone to mother
them for once?I am starting to have hurt/sensetive feelings toward my dh for not being at all nurturing to me (which tells me I'm extra emotional=probably a girl)BUT STILL!If I had any money,I would hire a nanny-for me!Anyone else feel like this?
Daydream....My nanna would; Fix me a big buffet lunch every day,
console my emotions,
give me massages,
read me stories(lord of the rings,perhaps?)
brew me herbal teas,
just hang out or check in and care for me so I can care for my family.
So,really,I think my dh should be doing at least a little of those things.Instead,take this morning for example,I got up early,while i was still too sick,cos I knew I was going to have a tired day,so I could have a hot bath before the kids woke up.So i was making toast before I passed out of hunger and he whines to me to come give him a back massage so he can get up for work...!I was nice,and I did,telling him my bath plan and about my long night and day before,THEN, he hops in a hot tub and asks me to make his lunch since he won't have time!Then dd wakes up,I nurse her back to sleep,and get 3 inches of hotish water for my relaxing bath!!!!!!!Now,o.k. sure today was a little extreme,but he showed no sign of concern or compassion while i was 3 times more comassionate to him!!!I WANT MY MOMMA!!!!!