Chinese pistache,
You're not a bad mama -- else you wouldn't be here.
Would it be helpful to tell your family that these are food allergies... exaggerate. Mention death, perhaps.
We're facing a dilemma when we visit my inlaws (well, dh's grandparents) over Thanksgiving. They eat a very SAD diet. So dh will let me bring our own food (haha! he used to give me grief when I did this in the past). He's going to be explaining to the grandparents that this is a doctor prescribed diet and that we're dealing with food allergies (only some of this statement is false, so it isn't a complete lie).
Our favorite sitter is a college student from our daycare. Perhaps there's a local daycare where you can get a referral for a babysitter? If it is a state licensed facility, most states require daycare workers to be screened - criminal history, first aid training, etc. - so you'd be likely getting someone who is reliable and can follow instructions and doesn't have family baggage
Then leave instructions about food with some mention of doctor's orders. Why people believe things when you include the phrase "doctor's orders", I have no idea -- but it works!
You're not a bad mama -- else you wouldn't be here.
Would it be helpful to tell your family that these are food allergies... exaggerate. Mention death, perhaps.
We're facing a dilemma when we visit my inlaws (well, dh's grandparents) over Thanksgiving. They eat a very SAD diet. So dh will let me bring our own food (haha! he used to give me grief when I did this in the past). He's going to be explaining to the grandparents that this is a doctor prescribed diet and that we're dealing with food allergies (only some of this statement is false, so it isn't a complete lie).
Our favorite sitter is a college student from our daycare. Perhaps there's a local daycare where you can get a referral for a babysitter? If it is a state licensed facility, most states require daycare workers to be screened - criminal history, first aid training, etc. - so you'd be likely getting someone who is reliable and can follow instructions and doesn't have family baggage
Then leave instructions about food with some mention of doctor's orders. Why people believe things when you include the phrase "doctor's orders", I have no idea -- but it works!


: VERY dangerous for b'feeding dcs to do if you have metal in your mouth. 


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: I've got to figure out some way to deal with these conflicting emotions because we'll be here for a while
about it when I tell her but I mean it. I don't doubt that dd would be an ASD kid if it weren't for Jane. Well, or if I had kept vaxing her too.
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(I'm selfishly happy about that.)
: ) The broths I would start ASAP. I would strongly suggest taking up fermenting vegetables and fruit. With all of the children and likely an assortment of problems, the broth will add more minerals and the fermentation more vitamins and bacteria. Those are all good things regardless.
. You have so much on your plate! You really need to read one of Karen DeFelice's books 'Enzymes for Autism' is the one I read. I think enzymes could be beneficial for RA and inflammation, esp bromelain. She also says in this book that enzymes can help underweight children too, helps their bodies process nutrients and if they have any gut issues it can help to heal them so they have a bigger appetite.
: . I found someone near me that has the starter.
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