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The way some nursing moms are being treated is almost like black people/AA's were treated when segregation was still legal. Separate rooms for breastfeeding? Being told to "do that elsewhere" or "go to the bathroom to do that" Can we say black and white lunch counters??? Does anyone else feel this way?? I think this is SERIOUS civil rights problem and it needs to be addressed- preferrably at a federal and constitutional level. It should be a CRIME to tell nursing mothers to "go elsewhere" just like it would be if a business denied services to people on the color of their skin.

BREASTFEEDING MOTHERS ARE NOT SECOND CLASS CITIZENS!

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The way some nursing moms are being treated is almost like black people/AA's were treated when segregation was still legal. Separate rooms for breastfeeding? Being told to "do that elsewhere" or "go to the bathroom to do that" Can we say black and white lunch counters??? Does anyone else feel this way?? I think this is SERIOUS civil rights problem and it needs to be addressed- preferrably at a federal and constitutional level. It should be a CRIME to tell nursing mothers to "go elsewhere" just like it would be if a business denied services to people on the color of their skin.

BREASTFEEDING MOTHERS ARE NOT SECOND CLASS CITIZENS!


I totally agree. And don't forget they are also treating our children differently, not just us mothers, by making them eat on a toilet seat, which just is totally unacceptable!
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The way some nursing moms are being treated is almost like black people/AA's were treated when segregation was still legal. Separate rooms for breastfeeding? Being told to "do that elsewhere" or "go to the bathroom to do that" Can we say black and white lunch counters??? Does anyone else feel this way?? I think this is SERIOUS civil rights problem and it needs to be addressed- preferrably at a federal and constitutional level. It should be a CRIME to tell nursing mothers to "go elsewhere" just like it would be if a business denied services to people on the color of their skin.
Blacks were legally separated from the whites, completely and legally. Where women are sometimes told to breastfeed is sometimes offensive, but they are allowed access to everything and everywhere people who don't breastfeed are allowed to go. No one could have ever said to a black person, "Go eat in the bathroom and come back when you're white." Society's "horror" at having to seem something like breastfeeding (which I think should be allowed anywhere, anytime) applies only during that act. If lactating mothers were separated, that might be closer.

Saying breastfeeding can only be done in a certain place is more like saying people can only smoke cigarettes in certain places. (Yes, I think the two acts are hugely different, but the point is that people are sent someplace only during that time, any other time they can be and go anywhere.)

Breastfeeding, the act, IS being singled out, but it doesn't compare to racial segregation. (And neither are okay.)
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Blacks were legally separated from the whites, completely and legally. Where women are sometimes told to breastfeed is sometimes offensive, but they are allowed access to everything and everywhere people who don't breastfeed are allowed to go. No one could have ever said to a black person, "Go eat in the bathroom and come back when you're white." Society's "horror" at having to seem something like breastfeeding (which I think should be allowed anywhere, anytime) applies only during that act. If lactating mothers were separated, that might be closer.

Saying breastfeeding can only be done in a certain place is more like saying people can only smoke cigarettes in certain places. (Yes, I think the two acts are hugely different, but the point is that people are sent someplace only during that time, any other time they can be and go anywhere.)

Breastfeeding, the act, IS being singled out, but it doesn't compare to racial segregation. (And neither are okay.)
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Could not have said it better myself!
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Not that being able to nurse where ever, when ever is not valueable, but I think that it seriously undervalues the struggle of people of color to equate the two.
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100% agree! I've been interviewed for a few diff. newspaper articles - and I always throw in the "discrimination" idea - after all - we ARE being treated differently than our bottle feeding counterparts. If you were to toss in ANY other type of citizen, (by race, weight, height, disability, etc...) this type of *stuff* would NEVER fly....I'm saying they are not the SAME - but in the same category (perhaps different degrees of discrimination?). What if it was an overweight individual who was asked to eat someplace else (the bathroom) or someone like my great grandfather - who had a REALLY tough time eating after his stroke - it was often tough to watch - how would people react if he was told to eat in the bathroom?
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I see the two situations as analogous, but very different in degree and impact.
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