Can you supplement with Montessori method at home?

[marvelous]

Although I have read about homeschooling and Montessori schools (still learning about both) it is doubtful that either would ever be an option as I am the breadwinner of the family and DH doesn't seem to have any luck getting decent jobs.

I was reading about some Montessori methods and they just seem so....perfect for my DD. Has anyone used some of these methods at home to supplement public school education or would it be overkill or too different? DD is only 17 months, but she is already so inquisitive about different things, so I teach her as she shows interest. I am a product of public schools, and doing quite well, but I don't have that much faith in the system anymore. With the focus on standardized testing and beauracracy, its not what it could be, but as I mentioned earlier, alternatives will probably not be available. I just want to do what's best for her within my means and abilities, but we gotta eat, KWIM?

Any thoughts or input?

[Lillianna]

It certainly wouldn't hurt to try, there are many homeschoolers who use Montessori methods, maybe you can get some info from them.
Many of the materials are linked together in a progression of increasing challenges and should be understood within the framework of Montessori's (rather complex) theories on (self) education. The mixed ages community is also an important aspect to consider. Another thing about supplementing one type of schooling with another type is that I think it can be a bit overwhelming to the child especially since she will have homework to do as well in PS.
Did you see the thread about Public Montessori schools? Maybe that is a possibility for you?
I am the breadwinner too! Luckily, I work at a M school, so my dd goes with me! Maybe M training is in your future or maybe for your dh? Is he the 'nurturing' type? Many M schools would love to have a male assistant in Children's House.

[marvelous]

Thank you so much for your response.

DH is good with children, but I wouldn't call him the "nurturer."

I hadn't thought about becoming an M teacher. I am educator at the university level and I kinda like it there. I'll have to look into it.

[mamabeca]

I think at her age, you have about 4 more years of teaching her using whatever methods you choose! If your dh is a sahd, then give him the opportunity to lead in using Montessori tools. If you have beaucoup bucks, Michael Olaf sells beautiful things, but I've picked up LOADS of tools from garage sales, consignment shops etc. - little hand brooms, silver polish kits, little china dishes, wooden spindles, etc. Also if he's handy w/wood, he can make some stuff! My dh made my ds a 'lock box' that ROCKS! And it's daddy made, so SO much better than anything we could buy him. A real planned out house, castle, barnyard, made from wood is not too hard, and lasts a long time. Play kitchen?

A squirt bottle filled with water and a flannel rag are EXCELLENT tools for kids to help around the house with cleaning, are safe, and fun! Water time at the sink? Chuck in something like a funnel, and it's educational as well as fun. He can read up on the types of items or just visit a 0-3 classroom for a few hrs. and be observant of what the children USE.

I guess, the short answer I'm not saying lol, is that you have some time. Use it to do what YOU want with your child. Once school age hits, you can reassess the situation. Maybe by then the two of them will have a relationship that really IS nurturing, tho very different from the kind you and dc share. Does that make sense?