What are the dangers of having my water broke?
Will induction and pit effect my ability to tolerate natural labor?
Will I decide when it is time to push? (with ds1 they would not let me; dd1 I could not feel anything as the ODed me with the epi)
Is there a chance I could die if I get an epidural? (Almost did with ds1 and dd1)
Is there a way to avoid epes and if I do get one, how long until it is healed? (I went around for nearlt 12 wekks with popped open stitches with ds1)
Do you have to push painfully on my tummy after birth?
Does the baby need the vit K shot?
Why does the baby need to be under the warmer and what are the alternatives?
When should I offer the breast to my new arrival?
Can we do all exams on my chest in the first two hours or so?
What women are good canidates for hospital births and how should birth at home?
What positions are best during different stages og labor?
I will not be expected to lay on my back, right?
I will not be expected to be hooked up to monitors, right?
This is off the top of my head.
This is also why #4 will be arriving at home in 3 weeks. I have educated myself and now can answer these and many more questions myself. I will no longer cave based oin false trust or lack of knowledge.