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my son using GD on a classmate...  

post #1 of 14
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He's in 5th grade. There is another boy driving him and everyone else crazy. He's very obnoxious, in your face, consantly a discipline issue. My son has to sit next to him. After a couple weeks of being driven crazy, my son decided that maybe this kid acts up because he gets bored, and that he's too disorganized to carry a book in his bag for the "downtimes" at school. So my son started carrying an extra book (they are all supposed to have one at all times.) He picked an award winning and entertaining book at the appropriate level, and carries it. Whenever the kid gets annoying, he quietly hands him a book and suggests that he spend some time reading calmly. The kid does it! So then my son insists that he hand the book back to him, but promises he'll keep it available in case he needs it again.

Its not solving the problem entirely, but its really helping. It makes me laugh, because this is exactly how we handle it when *he* needs to tone it down! And he figured the whole plan out and was implementing it for a solid week before he even mentioned it to me! His own initiative entirely.
post #2 of 14
Wow! That is really, really neat!
post #3 of 14
That is great! Congratulations on being such a wonderful mom and teaching your son so well. He sounds like a special kid.
post #4 of 14
I am soo impressed, by both your ds and what a great mom you must be for him to be who he is. Awesome!
post #5 of 14
yay mamaduck!!

And yay for your duckling!
post #6 of 14
What a cool thing! And what a cool son you have...

dar
post #7 of 14
that rocks! GO YOU!
post #8 of 14
Ahhhhh...that is so sweet.
post #9 of 14
What a refreshing story after watching some 2yos tell each other to go in time out this weekend!
post #10 of 14
to your son and to you!
post #11 of 14
Oh, that's wonderful! : I wonder if the teacher has noticed a difference in this student.
post #12 of 14
Mamaduck, that reminded me of a quote I love from one of the founders of LLL:

"There is no greater nor more challenging career than that of mothering. The rewards, when they come, are great indeed." --- Mary White

Thank you so much for sharing. That really made my day
post #13 of 14
That is really, really awesome, and totally adorable I'd love to think that a kid that was once a nuisance and a disruption for your son becomes a friend through his thoughtfulness Some "troubled" kids just need a friend who can give that invisible nudge and be a good role-model for them (I say this from personal experience, lol)
post #14 of 14
That is so sweet!
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