My ds is intact.My cousin had a baby boy 5 months ago,and of course circ'd him.
I tried to talk to her,but she didn't want to hear it.He has a hernia,and will be having surgery on the 10th.They needed him to cry so the dr could see the hernia,so they pulled back what was left of his foreskin
:
.The dr said it needs to be redone,since "the skin grew back over the hole".He pees with no problems. I tried to tell her that it is normal not to see the hole,and that I have never even seen my 5yo's.She said she needs to retract to clean
.I tried to tell her the remaining foreskin is just doing what's it's supposed to,and that my ds's is still fused.She doesn't want to listen to me,but I thought I would try one more time,this time with printed info.I don't want to seem pushy,but I just don't want him to hurt anymore!
Also,you cannot see his penis at all.He's a very chunky baby,22lbs,and all you can see are his testicles and a little bit of foreskin.If they take that off,what will be left?I only changed him once,and I thought he was intact(I was hoping
),but is just very chubby.
I'm just so afraid this will make everything worse.Also the dr said at first since he wouldn't cry(he's a very happy little guy!),that since he couldn't see the hernia and to bring him back in 3 months.Now they are rushing the surgery.Any advice I could give her,any links to print out(I'm limited on computer time) would be greatly appriciated.Thanks!!
I tried to talk to her,but she didn't want to hear it.He has a hernia,and will be having surgery on the 10th.They needed him to cry so the dr could see the hernia,so they pulled back what was left of his foreskin
:
.The dr said it needs to be redone,since "the skin grew back over the hole".He pees with no problems. I tried to tell her that it is normal not to see the hole,and that I have never even seen my 5yo's.She said she needs to retract to clean
.I tried to tell her the remaining foreskin is just doing what's it's supposed to,and that my ds's is still fused.She doesn't want to listen to me,but I thought I would try one more time,this time with printed info.I don't want to seem pushy,but I just don't want him to hurt anymore!Also,you cannot see his penis at all.He's a very chunky baby,22lbs,and all you can see are his testicles and a little bit of foreskin.If they take that off,what will be left?I only changed him once,and I thought he was intact(I was hoping
),but is just very chubby.I'm just so afraid this will make everything worse.Also the dr said at first since he wouldn't cry(he's a very happy little guy!),that since he couldn't see the hernia and to bring him back in 3 months.Now they are rushing the surgery.Any advice I could give her,any links to print out(I'm limited on computer time) would be greatly appriciated.Thanks!!







