.......This is her DH....I promise I won't do that.....Honest....Put down the scissors......No, I wasn't reading over your shoulder....I just heard the.....AAAAAAAA......Help me!!!!!!!!!!!
Yeah, hubby just walked into the room and took over the keyboard after I immediatly ripped into him about "men". Now all he keeps saying is "I love you" and "I'm sorry for whatever it is that some other guy did" and "poor dumb b@stard, he's not going to know what hit him!"
OH MY GOSH! You gals are making me crack up this morning!
Well, I spilled my guts yesterday and told him that I was not comfortable with his taking a vacation when he is in debt and when we could use the money for other things (I've been working full-time all along and budgeting EVERY DOLLAR I spend in an Excel spreadsheet so that I can save money every month). His prioritization skills are not exactly filling me with trust. I also used one of the pp's lines about how even though he is not pregant, we are BOTH having a baby.
He responded with remorse and said that he wanted me to be emotionally secure and that yes, the money could be spent on something for the whole family (UH HELLO, or he could replace the money he borrowed from the savings account).
He said he was just so tempted by the idea of the hot springs...he says he feels so free and happy in the water and wanted some rejuvenation after teaching night classes for the last 6 weeks so he could catch up financially (again, he's STILL not caught up).
And I'm thinking...HELLO??? What about me? I'm pregnant, working full-time out of the home and quite busy being a mom too. Now I love that I can do all these things for the good of myself, my son and the family...but I think it's so selfish of him to pat himself on the back and feel he needs a vacation for doing the same :
Last night I went over to a girlfriend's house and my little boy/her triplets played while we ate dinner and had a good chat. I swear, friendship makes Life not only bearable but pretty darn wonderful!