I was one of those "hider" teens...

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It was just so emBARrassing... underpants and... vagina and... messiness <shudder>

So I hid my undies when they got stained (which was
every cycle when I was using sposie pads). And I wrapped up the used pads tightly in thread and flushed them, praying they wouldn't clog anything. This continued until I toured the sewage treatment plant and saw their composting operation and considered that the plastic on the bottom of my pads was ending up littering. I tried tampons but they didn't last long and were painful for me to use.
Things actually got better when I started using cloth (I ordered them myself over the internet and hoped no one would find out what I got in the mail). I knew if I didn't deal with them that someone might find one (oh the horrors!) and that I'd have to get sposies from mom's stash under the sink again, and discard them in the trash, and then someone might see, and know that I was bleeding <gasp!>.
So I developed a clandestine operation involving the bathroom sink (where I lathered them with hand soap and rinsed) and a row of Cool Whip tubs under my bed (I pinched them from the recycling bin and used them for soaking the pads in oxybleach). After the stains were out I rinsed them in the sink again, wrung really well, and hung them to dry under the dustruffle. Thus completely avoiding any possible public viewing of anything having to do with my period. It also eliminated the embarrassing crackling of sposie pads and the sticking-to-pubic-hair torture.
Years later I discovered the Keeper, which I like very much. But I have heard that virgins may find its insertion very painful.
The moral of the story being that if you provide your young teen with a method to clean her cloth pads that does not involve giving them to you, she may do better with them.
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