My girlfriend who nursed her four babies, had cute perky B cup breasts before she started... afterwards she had these sort of empty shells of breasts. She got implants and has never looked back.
Interestingly, she continued to lactate (not huge amounts, but still) for several years after stopping breastfeeding and getting implants!
I'm not going to debate that choice with anyone, but I will say that for me, I'm not above plastic surgery to correct any changes that I personally don't like in my breasts, when I'm done breastfeeding. I may not need to, but I'm aware there is a possibility there! But it surely wouldn't stop me from breastfeeding... even if I didn't think I could do that.
The reality is that we each have to like ourselves at the end of the day and not worry about whether someone thinks we're "giving in to society" or "proudly wearing our breastfed boobs". At some point we gotta just say NO to the MommyWars about what should be important to who. Breast appearance is going to be more important to some than others, and that is ok. Breasts will change more in some women than others, and that is ok too.
Pandora, perky 36D's! Girl, wow!!!
Mine are still kinda perky but only because they are little, gosh darnit!
BTW any MAN who would give a woman crap about her boobs being ruined should be... well I know we don't believe in corporal punishment here, so I'll stop, but I find it very tempting for a man like that. My comment is about WOMEN making choices for themselves... not MEN choosing for us.